love at first sight

India
February 1, 2007 11:43am CST
can anyone fall in love as soon as he sees or meet someone for the first time?i think the attraction which developes at the first sight is not really love.it is just infatution.but infatuation can grow up into love in due course of time if we keep meeting the person for whome we have love like feelings.just as acquaintance can grow up into friendship in the same way infatuation can grow up into love.what r ur views.if anyone has ever experienced love at first sight then plz share the experience with me . if anyday u feel that u have started loving a preson after seeing or meeting him/her for the first time then how will u deal with it?
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10 responses
• India
12 Feb 07
i think love at first sight is not a love its a infatuation only.
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@seenkung (425)
• Malaysia
5 Feb 07
I just attracted to the person for first sight and that's all.I don't really love that person since I don't know her characteristic.
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• India
4 Feb 07
yes it always happens, but always in films........i havent seen in real life
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• Canada
3 Feb 07
i don't beleive in love at first sight. you can't truely love someone that you don't know anything about that means your basing love on appearences and not personality. you can't even tell if you are compatible with this oerson. However i do beleive in lust at first sight.
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@navaneeth (132)
• India
3 Feb 07
its impossible to fall in love at the first site. if you think you have fallen in love with someone after just meeting her, then its just infatuation. to fall in love , the process is gradual. it takes time. you begin to know more about the person over a period of time, and you really begin to like her.
@Anakata2007 (1787)
• Canada
2 Feb 07
I don't think it's love that happens at first sight, but like you said, it's infatuation. When I first met my husband I will never forget the moment that our eyes met, it was electrifying, but it wasnt love, and in fact for the first 3 months we were dating, I wasnt' sure about him, but anyways, now we're happily married.
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@saunty (604)
• India
2 Feb 07
Even i have always the same thinking what you have, about this topic...Love at first sight..its something which sounds too filmy rather then having any real existence ...and if someone feel as if he/she has fallen in love for someone in first sight , then that means he/she is a complete linebaz...lol...
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@k3tk3t (3131)
• Philippines
2 Feb 07
i think yes attacted but the word love..no...need time to tell that you really love the person...
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• United States
1 Jul 10
I do kinda Where work at i never even noticed this guy seen him one time and thought he's cute, but that was it. Later on i saw him again didn't notice he was working close by me until someone pointed him out, and even than still didn't notice him. until one day i was doing the norm at work,and then i saw him looking at me and then we ended up locking eyes , and wow it was so amazing so we would talk here and there and just looked, but never went any where because i believe we both were to shy. what a experience still think of him.
• United States
3 Apr 07
I think that there's no such thing as "love at first sight." This is my opinion because I put too much value in 'love'. Love, for me, is something deeper and this feeling becomes deeper when there's more interaction between two people, which happens when they got to know each other better. If someone sees a person for the first time and felt the heart skip a bit, that's physical attraction. If one immediately got attracted to another's personality, that's admiration and infatuation. Whatever it's called, for me, it's not love when it's at first sight. Why? Because I bet the feeling won't stay upon realization later on that a particular person is not the same person you met the first time. This is when all the barriers have been broken and you see the real person.