I need help with my relationship FAST!!!!

United States
February 1, 2007 12:29pm CST
I'm completely in love with this girl. We have been dating for 5 years now. I cant take a day without her. Recently she cheated on me with some other random guy at a party she was at. She is pregnant with his baby. Im going through so much stress right now. She wants to be with me but she also wants the other man to be involved in her life because of the baby. What should I do I mean, I love her to death, but I cant cope with this I need advice now.. Thank you for listening.
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6 responses
@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
1 Feb 07
Can you forgive her for cheating, and can u aslo be a part of raising a child that comes out of it.. And how do u know that the baby is his and not yours? Are u not sexually active? I could never live with this, I would break up and find someone who respects me and love me - and won´t cheat on me!
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• United States
13 Feb 07
First thing I would do is find outif the baby yours or the other guys. That will have a huge affect on howyou should handle the rest of the situation. As far as the girl goes, baby out of the picture, you need to decide whether you cna forgive her or not. If you can forgive her, can you ever trust her again? I wouldfindit hard to and that would be the end of the relationship for me. It would definitely be the end if the baby is not mine. There is no way you should put yourself in the middle of the mess she has created. She does not love you the way she should and is just looking for a father for her child. If the child is yours, take responsiblity for the child. Be the childs father, but the romantic relationship with the childs mother should end. You can't trust her and that is the bottom line. Good luck with this situation.
• India
13 Feb 07
i think you dont involve in this matter.you love her right but she dont love you . she is using you. i think you leave her.
• United States
1 Feb 07
If you truely do Love her then I say yes, but if you dont get the hell out of there. THANKS!
1 Feb 07
I think you should find another girl. She obviously doesn't love you if she has slept with someone else. You deserve someone who loves you as much as you love them.
@hartnsoul (558)
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
Love is always considered mutual respect. I think, you can forgive her but don't stick with her. Cheating on you simply means that she doesn't respect you. It sure hurts to love soemone who's only half-hearted with you.