my girlfriend doesnt want cunnulingus

@bmjut247 (171)
Philippines
February 1, 2007 1:32pm CST
my girlfriend refuses to let me go down on her... what could be the possible reason for this? i dont force her to allow me to do it and i asked politely about it. i was just curious on why she refuses.
12 responses
• United States
1 Feb 07
I know that alot of females are embarrassed by this. I have heard it so many times. I think you are right at not forcing her, if she doesnt want to, dont worry about it. After time she may change her mind.
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@bmjut247 (171)
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
like i said to a comment above, i just want to understand her better. ^__^
• India
1 Feb 07
give her some time , n she 'll do it all as u like. trust me , jus let her take her sweet time.
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• India
14 Feb 07
i think she wants this after marriage . my girlfriend also like your girlfriend. she always refuses me . i dont force her . she is very nice and i respect her .
@whitefox (1347)
• Italy
1 Feb 07
Probably she feels ashamed but not being worried because inch by inch she will convince herself. Not force her and respect her times
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@kmgupta (561)
• India
7 Feb 07
she do want to do that
@Anakata2007 (1785)
• Canada
7 Feb 07
She is worried that she smells down there. all women worry about that until they meet a man who somehow makes them more comfortable (although some women will never be comfortable with it). Your girlfriend may have had an old boyfriend who thought it was "disgusting" or was scared to do it, so she thinks all men think it's grosse. She might feel more comfortable if you two get in a bath together and you wash her down there, and you offer to just kiss her once down there right after she gets out of the bath.
• United States
1 Feb 07
When you had asked her, what was her reason? Did she feel that she would not like it? For now, your girlfriend is the only person that knows the reason for this. Eventually, she might let you go there, but be patient.
@kmgupta (561)
• India
4 Feb 07
if something goes wrong she has to bear all the consequence you just enjoy.she don't want to do it before marriage
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
Love is not about getting down. Maybe she's not ready yet.
• India
1 Feb 07
give her some time, n she 'll do it all, trust me let her take her sweet time okay pal.
@kadugudi (200)
• India
6 Feb 07
First You needto know what are her likes and dislikes and at the same time slowly, slowly let her know your likes and dislikes; then if she is comfortable; and IF AND ONLY SHE LIKES; so as she likes; DO NOT FORCE; your idea is RIGHT.... RAJ
@trogoz (140)
• Italy
6 Feb 07
Maybe it's just her preference! Just please her in the way she likes!