How do girls feel when guys stare at their bodies?

Philippines
February 1, 2007 8:40pm CST
How do girls feel when guys stare at their bodies? Like when you are in a party and you notice some guys are really staring at your body? D you take it as offensive or complementary? =/
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32 responses
• United States
2 Feb 07
It depends on the situation. If it is a guy I am involved or want to be involved with it can be very enjoyable for both sides,. However I find it very degrading when I am with my kids and some perv is undressing me with his eyes.
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• United States
25 May 07
I agree with lilbitgreen, if it's a guy that I'm interested in, then I like it. But, if it's some guy on the street that later comes up and tells me how great my (insert vulgar name of a body part here)are, then I don't like it. I don't know who that guy is and as far as I know he may try to rape me. The last guy who tried to rape me used to compliment my body that way.
• Philippines
2 Feb 07
Many girls nowadays think that every guy who stares at them is some kind of pervert. =/
• Philippines
3 Feb 07
I know. I didn't say 'ALL' right? =) Its just that here in my country, many girls think that when guys look at their bodies, they feel like being undressed. =/
@xXmeganxX (4421)
2 Feb 07
no i take it as a compliment, i don't get many people staring at me these days, i think it's because im getting a little bit older, lol! :O)
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• Philippines
2 Feb 07
Ahaha is that so? =) Well, I think mature women look better than underage girls. (Haha did that comparison made sense? LOL)
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@lols189 (4742)
2 Feb 07
i take it as a compliment dude
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• Philippines
2 Feb 07
Yeah! That's how a girl's suppose to react. Well, of course a girl can distinguish between a guy who admires her beauty over a guy who is perverse. =/
@blee92 (581)
• United States
11 Feb 07
i take it as offensive, and it makes me feel really uncomfortable! i also hate it because men stare at you like your a piece of meat waiting to be taken! so don't EVER stare at a girls body!
@blee92 (581)
• United States
12 Feb 07
girls dress up cause they want to feel and look good about themself. if they do that, it doesn't mean that guys have the right to look at their bodies.
• Philippines
11 Feb 07
Then why do girls dress up then? Do they only want to be looked at by girls? And guys cannot appreciate their beauty by looking at them? Girls really are straaaaange creatures.. =P
• Philippines
2 Feb 07
it depends how the guy would look at the girl because there are times that the girl would be disgusted the way he would look at her.
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• Philippines
2 Feb 07
Yeah. There are guys who look like maniacs when they stare on a pretty girl. But sadly, some girls generalize that all men are perverts. =/
2 Feb 07
I think I would be offended yes, unless the person staring was my boyfriend. The odd glance is ok, but if someone stares for ages it makes you think there is something wrong with you.
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• Philippines
2 Feb 07
It could mean three things: (1) You got something on your face. (2) You are just so uberly pretty/cute. (3) that guy is a total pervert. LOL.
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• Indonesia
6 Mar 07
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• Philippines
9 Mar 07
Haha naturally.. =P That's a cute pic by the way.. =)
@zemlene (354)
• Philippines
17 Mar 07
it depends on the guy who stared... if i like the guy then it's ok but if not then... it's offensive. hehehe. Anyway, i happen to have such experience before.. i just stay away from him and let him know that he is rude to stare openly.
• Philippines
17 Mar 07
So that means girls only want good-looking men to stare at them LOL
@emquinsat (1058)
• Philippines
12 Feb 07
I'd say it's kinda offensive. A complement for me is staring at my face and not just my body. But in the setting you're giving, it's already a given that guys stare with malice. It's a club and people get the vibe of hooking up in a club.
• Philippines
25 Feb 07
Well, I intended to state it generally. Clubs really have that certain aura of 'hooking up'. So I see your point. =) Thanks for pointing that out. =)
@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
12 Feb 07
it depends on the way how the guy looks. if its malicious then its offensive. if its not, then i guess its ok, i'l take it as a compliment. ^__^ but either case, the girl always feels conscious.
• Philippines
25 Feb 07
Haha yeah.. =) They get conscious. And some girls really look cute when in those kind of situations. =) Remember girls, not all guys are perverts. =)
@Stringbean (1273)
• United States
12 Feb 07
I would assume that the guy is pretty immature. Mature guys know that there is more to a girl than her body, and they would have more respect for a female than to stare at her no matter how nice she looked. When I see a guy turning his head to stare when a girl walks by, especially if he is already with a girl, I wonder what his companion is thinking. If a guy did that while I was with him, it would be the last time I went out with him.
• United States
12 Feb 07
P.S. I should also have said, a girl that likes to have guys stare at her body is also showing just how immature she is.
@neha02 (64)
• India
3 Feb 07
i generally take it as compliment. Generally we girls wear sexy dress to attract guy towards us.
@blee92 (581)
• United States
11 Feb 07
girls have like what they wear and guys NEED to respect that by not staring at her body!
• Philippines
3 Feb 07
Yeah. Girls dress up to be noticed. So it is just weird when a girl spends hours dressing up and won't allow any guy to look at her. =/
@jean_rose (415)
• Philippines
16 Mar 07
I find it offensive especially when it is accompanied with a covetous look or something. I hate the feeling of being looked at in such a manner. It makes me feel insulted and degraded. But if it were my husband looking at me, it would be complementary.
• Philippines
17 Mar 07
Well, being stared upon by someone close to you isn't a problem. But when strangers do it, it's kinda offensive. Only, some girls almost instantly label guys who stares at them as perverts.
• Philippines
16 Mar 07
Well it depends on the girl. If a girl loves attention, then probably she will take it as a compliment. But if a girl is shy, she wouldnt like to be stare upon. It makes her unconscious.
• Philippines
17 Mar 07
Yeah. You have a point. Some girls really like to be stared at, while some will just be so conscious that they dart away instantly, or even flash some 'hostile' gestures. LOL
@xXmeganxX (4421)
2 Feb 07
okay then thanks for telling me im not old, that's made me feel better..hehe! :O)
• Philippines
2 Feb 07
Ahaha.. I'm just stating facts here. =) Have a nice day! =)
@ronita34 (3922)
• Canada
2 Feb 07
It all depends on how the look comes across to me. Whether he is looking at me with just wrong and dirty intentions! Or if he is fact looking for more than just to get you into bed. I guess that either way it can be a big ego booster though!!
• Philippines
2 Feb 07
Ahaha.. That makes sense. Thanks! =)
12 Feb 07
oh i definately take it as a compliment....though i can differnciate..wen a guys interested,....and wen pervert!!! hate the pervert type!!!
• Philippines
25 Feb 07
Haha.. Everybody hates perverts. =P It just depends on how the guy looks at you. You can easily tell if they are struck by your beauty or your boobs. =D
@urbangirl (1456)
• Australia
6 Feb 07
My first reaction is "did I spill something on my dress?". I really don't know what to think unless they tell me and I always feel awkward when someone I don't know stares at me for a long time.
• Philippines
6 Feb 07
Ahaha.. That's a good way to get away with it. =) Thanks for responding! =)
@victorwzj (539)
12 Feb 07
Hahah , the topic is funny. Well, I am not a chick so I can't really give you an answer but I often heard from internet and TV that, when guys talk to girls they us usually stare at their chest and the girls always need to remind the guy that "eyes up here". If someone stare at me I will feel uncomfortable let alone "girls".
• Philippines
25 Feb 07
Haha.. That's a good one. Look up here eh.. That's funny. =) Thanks for the response! =)
• United States
12 Feb 07
I hate when i see a guy staring at my body. Especially when I want to be talking to them and they are just staring at my boobs or something. It makes you feel uncomfortable and uneasy with them. Just look at a girls face when she talks to you you'll get further in the long run
• Philippines
25 Feb 07
Haha yeah.. There are actually guys that do that. Staring at valleys while having a conversation. LOL