i have never had even 1 response for my most of the post?im feeling disappointed

I am so sorry this happened to you. I got discouraged too. I have never gotten more than three or four responses and I just got a response from one that was two weeks old. I just respond to discussions that I know something about and whenever I come up with something good to start, I'm usually away from the computer and forget some of it. I hope you don't quit yet.

I wouldn't give up so soon. You are new here and it does take a while to get to the point where you are getting responses for your discussions. My advice would be for you to pace yourself with starting discussions. Don't start too many one right after another. A Lot of people see that and just automatically avoid those discussion thinking that the person is spamming. Also spend more time responding to other people's discussions. This is the best way to get people to know you. Then you can start building up a list of friends here at MyLot. Once you start getting friends and responding to other people's discussions then they will start coming and responding to yours. Sometimes it can take a few days to get a response but then it seems like you will get quite a few. Just make sure you are starting quality discussions which it looks like you are doing and also post qualtity responses. Do not post one liner responses or I don't know. Not only it that against the rules, it also upsets other Mylot members and they will not respond to your discussions. I know when you are new you want to see things move fast but here they really move slow and you have to work up to getting the responses you want. Give it time, it will get better. Good luck to you.