Do people always think deep before...?

@ilunice (947)
Netherlands
February 3, 2007 3:08am CST
I was just wondering if people ever think deely before entering into a relationship. I have heard people more than often saying "I don't love him/her anymore". Then I beging to wonder what has gone wrong? Do they lose their minds when telling themselve funny stories about love or they were just mindful of what they are after in the relationship. There is no doubt that some people go into relationship to exploit the other partner. Don't you think it is so inhuman playing with other people's emotion?
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@manong05 (5027)
• Philippines
3 Feb 07
To enter into a relationship just to toy with people's feelings is cruel. I wonder how many people are doing this deliberately. It could be possible that they both started with feelings for each other and after a while the feelings die down and there's nothing left. This is usually the case when there is no love involved just pure attraction and excited feelings. Feelings never last but love can stand the test of time. Feelings fluctuate but love is constant. Depending on the person's mood, there may be times you don't feel you love the person but deep down you know you love him/her for love is not dependent on feelings.
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
17 Apr 07
I think some people enter into relationships just to enjoy their time. I habve seen some, who used to tell "I love u" to girls when he needed someone. After enjoying with the girls, exploiting them, he used to avoid them. I feel all against about these. I simply doubt how many people really mean it when they say I love u.
@Sailor (1160)
• United States
4 Feb 07
No most people don't think deeply before getting into a relationship. You can tell this by the way people act. If people actually thought completely, they would be scared to get into a relationship.
• United States
3 Feb 07
I think the problem is that people mistake the feeling of infatuation, which can be pretty intoxicating, with love. The feeling of being all giddy whenever the person is around is so powerful that people think it must be love. But love isn't about that, although that CAN be a part of it. But that part is not going to last forever, at least not at that strength. So when it fades away, people feel like they're not in love any more. They haven't learned what love really is.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
3 Feb 07
i think i am guilty of this. i might have not thought before i entered in one relationship and i feel that i love him less than before and maybe, i just got carried away by the feeling that someone is pursuing me... :( im confused right now.