Do I have a problem
By kparab
@kparab (301)
United States
February 3, 2007 12:11pm CST
My husband is good He treat me well provide for whatever i ask for. Doesn't cpmplain even if i do anything wrong. But still i feel something is missing. I have been married for three now still most of the weekends he prefer to go out on his own. Very rarely he will ask me to come with him. That too for a movie at the most to some friends/relatives place we are expected to come as family. Do you think it all right
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5 responses
@worthy (2413)
• India
3 Feb 07
I think he should be taking you out with him on weekends.Its strange why he doesn't since you have mentioned that he treats you well and seems like a caring husband.Just be cautious as he might be trying to hide something from you .May be he is working on weekends too.Hope things turn out positive.
@Lush_heidi (994)
• United States
3 Feb 07
you need to sit down and tlak to him, and tell him what your needing from him as men arent mind readers, I wish they were. The marriage is still young and if he loves you, he will want to make you happy- maybe even go to counseling together to work thru the issue. I wish you the best of luck!
@kparab (301)
• United States
4 Feb 07
I used to do that but it was making matter worst so i too started on my own life. we did have a cute kid he really adores but i thing with her also when it comes to time spending he doesn't seem keen but he shops a lot of her get the best stuff he care about what she eats but no time
@danishcanadian (28953)
• Canada
3 Feb 07
He may be a great provider of financial things, but I think he lacks affection. You are missing affection and physical and emotional contact. We all need some time to be on our own, but we need time to be together too. He needs to balance the two.
@Riptide (2758)
• United States
3 Feb 07
I agree, you need to sit down with your husband and have a talk with him. Be open and tell him how you feel. It sounds like he is a good provider but the romance seems to be missing. If your talk doesn't get you any answers, suggest to go see a marriage counselor.
@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
3 Feb 07
You will have to open a heart to heart talk with your husband. Ask him how come you do not hear from him any comment on how have you been doing all these years. Tell him that you want to hear from him what are the things that you do that he finds amusing, or fine, or good, and why. If he could tell you each time he notices it, it will helply great in you carrying out those daily chores. Tell him it will also be good if he will talk to you about the things you have done which is seemingly wrong. You want to talk about some things with him. Will it be fine to have these conversations going as soon as he is settled upon his return from the office in the early evenings? There are really very many things we want to share with our husbands and may our husbands share theirs with the wives, too. Take the first step because it will have to be your move in order to keep things going.
