The One!!

@ronita34 (3922)
Canada
February 3, 2007 2:15pm CST
How will you ever know if there is such a thing. Your soulmate, the one for you, your everlasting love. Is there such a thing that exists out there?? If so why is it almost untouchable, so far away. You know what you want and crave it day in and day out. The love, the devotion, the loyalty, the tenderness and passion. The One... that wakes you up every morning like the roosters crow. Always there for you, to laugh, to play , to love and hold. Why does it always turn fowl, why cant i just be happy, why can't i just find...The One. Does he exist are you out there or just a vast mural of hope in the distance?? What do you think can you be The One??? By Ronita34
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49 responses
@shywolf (4514)
• United States
3 Feb 07
That is truly beautiful. You write some very touching poems! For me, all I can do is hope with all of my heart that there is someone out there for me. Your poem especially touched me because you described exactly what I feel, how much I long to find my true love. It is all that I have ever ached for. I don't care that much about money, career, work, anything like that. I only care about people, having people around that I can make happy - anything that can help to fill that void where I wish with all of my heart to have someone who loves me back as much as I love them. I just want to wake up every day with someone who I know I can make smile, someone who I can give my all to, and show them in every way possible that I love them. Someone who will feel the same way about me, and who will truly be excited to spend every day with me, because that is how I know I will feel about them every single day for the rest of our lives. It is just how I am. I never, ever get tired of making someone happy, and I want so much to do it for someone who will wish with all their heart to make me feel the same.
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@ronita34 (3922)
• Canada
3 Feb 07
Beautifully done...Bravo (Applause)!!! YOu defined this so perfectly and believe it or not i want exactly what you want and i think it is equally hard for all of us to find such a pure and true thing!
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@ronita34 (3922)
• Canada
3 Feb 07
Your welcome!!!
@shywolf (4514)
• United States
3 Feb 07
Aw.. thank you so much! I had a feeling from your poem that you felt much the same as I do. I really appreciate you giving me the best response award! ^_^
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@lauczi (962)
• Poland
3 Feb 07
oh yes i am The One! but not for u ;-), i have my soulmate. he is the one if i cant have him i dont want enyone else. i feel for him such a big feeling that i cant describe it. i feel as if he radiate with divine light. since i met him i felt that i love him truely and wanna spend with him my whole life. of course we argue sometimes, becoz we are only humans and have own problems. he is most handsome person in the world. i think u must strongly believe that u will find each other and it will happen.
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@ronita34 (3922)
• Canada
4 Feb 07
LOL...I am thankful for the fact that you are not the one for me ... LOL! Now that is a true definition of the one he is the one for you. Stands out above all others and that is what makes him the one for you!
@rainbow (6761)
3 Feb 07
Very good and honest, I don't think anyone has perfection every day,the fact that we grow up expecting it makes life a little more difficult every day.
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@ronita34 (3922)
• Canada
3 Feb 07
I know that there is no such thing as real perfection at all! However i do in fact believe that a view of what is perfect for you is as close as any of us will get to perfection!!!
@sigma77 (5383)
• United States
3 Feb 07
He is out there. Think of him and keep him close to your heart. You know the kind of man you want, and he does exist. Think of him exactly as you want him to be. You will attract him into your world. You will be surprised to find him to be your perfect mate.
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@ronita34 (3922)
• Canada
4 Feb 07
Awwwww...Thank you for this and i will find him! It has a been a three year wait now and i do not care how much longer it takes. I say this because i know that once i find him that i will not be letting him go and that i too will in fact have my happily ever after!!! God bless!!
@vityota (878)
• India
3 Feb 07
i thing there is something called as the soul mate as i have found one for me and i think life has changed and become colourful after that and i can always say yes soul mate is the one who cares for u, loves u and if need be even die for u
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@ronita34 (3922)
• Canada
4 Feb 07
Awwwww...I for one am glad that you have in fact found your soulmate and your one true love to cherish forever and ever AMEN!!!
• Romania
3 Feb 07
Everyone has a soulmate. You just have to wait for it,for your true love. I used to think just like you,and now that I`ve found it it`s all so good. All the best and don`t stop looking for it,you`ll find it! :)
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@ronita34 (3922)
• Canada
4 Feb 07
I will never give up fighting for my hopes and dreams it is not in me to give up !
@caramello (4377)
• Australia
3 Feb 07
In the past I would have said I did not have a soulmate and probably never would, BUT then it happened and I was not expecting it and all you have mentioned regarding a soulmate I have found. It may have taken me quite a few years for this to happen and lots of mistakes and pain but it did happen and I am greatful to have and am experiencing it as it is the best feeling! For me just to be able to trust this person is the hardest thing I guess I have had to do in my life, but when you can, life is a whole lot nicer! Trust me it can happen.
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@ronita34 (3922)
• Canada
4 Feb 07
I agree that in order to find your true love and soulmate you need patience overall. I have been single for three years now waiting for him and i have yet to give up hope. I am thankful that you have found your one true love and i hope you two live happily ever after! God Bless!
@kathy77 (7486)
• Australia
4 Feb 07
Oh there is a soulmate for everyone the problem is if you can find it or not, love and soulmates do not always turn fowl, you will have to look further for the right one.
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@moneymind (10510)
• Philippines
4 Feb 07
How can it become a soulmate when you do not really know the person and that if you have not found such person will still be called soulmate. Is your current partner your soulmate and how can you say that he/she is your soulmate. greetings. : )
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• Philippines
4 Feb 07
the right man will come at the right time
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• Canada
3 Feb 07
We all have a soulmate out there somewhere . Some of us have already found our soulmates while others are still looking but no one should ever give up on looking for the one that could be for you . Your soulmate is the one you love and you will know if they are the one or not because you won't have to question if it is the real thing or not .
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@ronita34 (3922)
• Canada
3 Feb 07
I thank you for your response as it gives me more and more hope in finding what i for one am looking for!
3 Feb 07
I dont' believe that everyone has one soulmate out there waiting for them. I think that different people can be compatible with more than one person. Most people find happiness with someone even if it is for a particularly short period of time.
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@ronita34 (3922)
• Canada
3 Feb 07
I agree to a point and we all have a right to our own opinions and i am glad that you stated yours to us. I also strongly agree with you when you said most people find happiness with someone even though it may only be for a short period of time!
• United States
4 Feb 07
I believe with all my heart that there is a "The One" for each person. Someone made just for me. A guy I will marry and be with forever. I hear there can be many ones for some but I believe or dream or whatever there is just one for me. One day we will meet and marry. Where, how, and all that is up to God and not to me. :)) *happy sigh*
@ronita34 (3922)
• Canada
4 Feb 07
LOL...I feel exactly the way you do on the subject! I believe that there will always be that brighter star and i will reach as high as i need to in order to grab it! I know that there is no such thing as perfection but you can have your own opinion of perfection as there is no real perfection i do not see what the big deal is if we dream up our own!! God Bless and Good Luck!
@skylord (33)
• Sri Lanka
4 Feb 07
A big YES that there is soulmate. I cnt tell you how to find them but i can tell you something how you you can identify if it your soulmate. Well as I know i meet my soulmate n that was around 4 years ago. N we had alot of problems. her parents didnt like etc.... But still we kept on. She was forced to break up 5 times. But she never stopped loving me. Now we are still having our relation going on. So i cnt tell you that there no soulmate. becouse i believe that whatever happens you will understand who is your soulmate on time. Ah i forgot to tell ya that this love was at first sight.
3 Feb 07
the one: its hard to belive that it is real. because the one is the perfect man/woman that will make u happy all the time that u wont hate him event after living with him for 60 years u will always love (the one). also its hard to find it in this world because i said its the perfect person for u and usually u dont see someting that is realy perfect everting u think is good its not perfectly perfect and the one is the best of the best u can`t find better then it thats y its so hard to find but its real!
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@ronita34 (3922)
• Canada
3 Feb 07
Wow...What a truly wonderful response and you hit it right on the head!
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@sunsham68 (1376)
• India
4 Feb 07
The one exists. I dated 2 people before I realised he was the one and he was there in my life all along. I can't say its easy cos finding the one is only part of the battle. The next part is putting up with all the resistance that comes when you try to stay together, both from you yourselves and from outside. I had signs all along that he was the one for me, but there were stupid obstacles that we let come between us, until one day we woke up to it. You have to be patient and realise, there will be ups and downs no matter what. Even with the one. God made your parents and they made you, you have your own views even though you were raised by them - how much more if you take a stranger until then and make him/her yours, they will have differences but the main thing is to focus on the things that are the same and build on them. Let the differences be distractions, at worst. Its also wrong to expect them to be constantly attentive and dutiful, you won't be able to live up to all their expectations either, if you let the small things pass by, the real things will draw you back again and again and that's what being with the one is all about, that you have huge things in common, and huge goals, dreams and plans which are inconquerable alone, but together just beyond the bend in the road.
@sunsham68 (1376)
• India
4 Feb 07
just to reiterate my point, skylord speaks of hurdles and obstacles too. its widely discussed in a book called soulmates and twin flames, these obstacles are to be expected when you meet your actual soul mate and that in one, is a sign that they are significant and not just another date/friend.
@brokentia (10389)
• United States
5 Feb 07
Very nice. But I am starting to think that there is no such thing as The One. Sure most of us have experienced the euphoria of love. But your right, it turns sour. there has been one person that I have always felt a certain way about that might have been labeled, The One. But the relationship did not get much of a running start to take that leap. So, i sit here today now guarding my heart thinking that if that person was The One, it will may never be. And if that person is not The One...maybe The One does not exist.
@ronita34 (3922)
• Canada
5 Feb 07
I know exactly what you mean. I too feel exactly the same way that you do at times.
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
4 Feb 07
I found my one and only in 1963. We had 2 lovely kids. oh we had our ups and downs but in the end we became stronger. and Sometimes it feels like you have to fight to keep it right and it works out with all relationships you have to work at it to make it happy both of you do. We kissed every morning and night and for the years I had him with me went to sleep with his arms around me! He worked where we traveled alot no way did he ever think of leaving me and kids behind in 35 years we moved 700 times and mostly all we had for friends was each other . The last nine months of his life I hardly left his side he would run me to puter room alot of time ha ha. but we would talk hold hand listen to music remeber our life together we went thru a lot of years of memories I lost him 2 years ago and I still hurt
• India
4 Feb 07
i m of two minds regarding the issue . Sometimes i feel that God has every thin planned for every one so it is undoubtful that he has planned a soulmate for everyone.. But at the next moment i wonder that how do we recognise our soulmate.. Do every people finally get their soulmates .. then why there are cases of divorce ,, etc.. So ultimately i beleive that we have a soulmate waitin for us but its not every one who meets his/her soulmate in life.. Isnt is true Ronita????
@ronita34 (3922)
• Canada
4 Feb 07
I agree with you on that point and i pray to God to lead me in the right direction each and every night! I can agree with you also on that and to answer the how do you know. Well, you do not know but i believe that God will lead the two of you together in one way or another. Sometimes we let our true soulmate go without thinking about it at the time and then lose him or her forever. Those that do tend to be alone for the rest of their lives and those that take the time to work on your relationship and communicate all the time with one another are successful. Just because we find what i woudl call my soulmate does not mean that life is all downhill from there. We still have to work hard and fight for what we want each and everyday!
@suffas (13)
• Lithuania
4 Feb 07
Love doesn' exists!!1
• Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
4 Feb 07
love does exist, but it's irrational, and can be complicated...that's why sometimes love is not enough
• Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
4 Feb 07
i know how you feel my friend...i have found that person but it just cannot be , at least not by now..i know what to feel all that is ....such pure and intense love you crave....but sometimes life gets in the way lol. I hope you're luckier than me honest. anyway i think that its not that there is only one person in the world that can be your One, there are several, but from those you meet one, and that is the one that makes it for you.
@ronita34 (3922)
• Canada
4 Feb 07
YOu are right that there can be many in your life that can be considered the one but i feel that there is really only one special one! One that stands out more than all the others and keeps everything in balance!