relationships

United States
February 3, 2007 3:00pm CST
I've been in a relationship with a guy who is 16 yrs older than me. we've been together for 5 yrs. but I recently, came home to visit family, and I've been here for 3 months. I feel as if he's been cheating, but I give him the benefit of the doubt, but now he's trying to start arguments onb the phone. I think he's cheating, what do you think?
1 response
• United States
3 Feb 07
I cant tell you if he is cheating or not he would only be able totell you that. I would def. make an effot to see what is goign on and the onlyway you can do that is if you talkto him. Let him know you love him more than anything you want to know what is going on that he always wants to argue with you!! Once he gives you a few more clues on what is going on I would come out bluntly and ask if he is not happy with you and if he is trying to break it off!! I know itsbeen 5 years and this is a very long time but sometimes people feel bad because of the long relationship and dont want to hurt you so they dothings behind your back. I dont know what I would do if I found somthing like this out!! Hope my thoughts help you out!!