Need advice, my girl breackup with me

@PomFect (204)
Israel
February 3, 2007 11:34pm CST
Hello, I need advice. My X girlfriend breackup with me with no reason. I only know thet she still love me (she told me she got private reasons) and its not on her care. she cant tell me why she breackup with me what should i do?
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@wiessied (646)
• United States
4 Feb 07
My advise is dont do anything move on with yourself if she cant be honest with you and tell you her reasons, why should you waste your time. if she loves you as you say just give it time, leave her be if she comes back to you then use your brain not you heart.
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@PomFect (204)
• Israel
4 Feb 07
tnx for ur command, but there are chances thet she betraying me with anther guy? and maybe she'll never back, maybe she just used me to make her guy jealous? i cant to know, i need tips to know. someone have tips?
@maryannemax (12170)
• Sweden
4 Feb 07
this is true. give her some time to collect herself and give yourself time to be on your own, too. is she's meant for you, you will have her no matter what.
@cherriemae (3374)
• Philippines
4 Feb 07
Maybe your X girlfiend has another man in his life. Breaking with you is just easy because she does not love you anymore, that's the truth. She only said that it's a private reasons because she doesn't want you to be hurt.. I can advice you that dont be feel depressed, there's a lot of girls that will make you happy, that will care for you and give her love with all her heart. Go out with your friends, do things that make you busy so that you will not think of your X anymore. Or see other girls for date or go to activities or fun with your friends. Just make youself busy and you will see that you will realize that your not thinking of your X girlfriend anymore..Be happy :)
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@PomFect (204)
• Israel
4 Feb 07
Dude! thet exectly what i tought! but has i said, i dont think she getting love anther guy (when u love someone its clear) but its not. thnks for ur advice, i will try to do what u said, but i think its wont work.. and its wont be easy becouse i steal love her. thnks for ur replay.
• India
4 Feb 07
Arrange for something so that she comes to know that your are lonely and trying to find new partner. Girls will be very Jelous, ofcourse she will reply you, with some reason or the other but she will contact you.
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@PomFect (204)
• Israel
4 Feb 07
thnks for ur replay, but i dont think its the problem. i also think about thet she trying to find new partner, but i guess she cant find new one becouse she steal love me has she said. and i guess she is not lie becouse its not look like she love anther guy (she is not pulling to anyone and atc.)
@Gmens91 (389)
• Philippines
4 Feb 07
That's what my former gf said to me around 2 years ago. She said that she still loved me but we had to break up for her personal reasons. Well, were not together anymore. I'm sorry to tell you this, but I'm pretty sure she wants to break up with you for good, and by telling you that its for personal reasons was is being kind and would not want to hurt you as much as possible. Telling you that she has private reasons is a pretty lame excuse for a break up, as it gets you confused and wondering what you did wrong in your relationship, but it is also a convenient way to avoid confrontations and angry reactions. Sorry.
@PomFect (204)
• Israel
4 Feb 07
Yes, thet exectly what she told me. thnks for ur command, but i'm pretty sure about the resons about why she brokeup with me.. maybe she betraying me? can u give me some tips how to explor if she betraying? by the way is ur gf brokeup with u for anther guy?
• United States
4 Feb 07
I would give her a little time and perhaps buy a card or write an email/letter and tell her your here for her and if she is going thru something in life, that you are there for her. I would also say, you need to know if you did something wrong,and really need to know why she broke up and if you two have a chance to get back together. her private reasons may be family related, or health related or maybe she needs some time to herself. I wish you luck my friend and I hope it works out for you!
@PomFect (204)
• Israel
4 Feb 07
Oh, I frogot that she told me she meight back in a time but its also can take years. thnks to ur replay but its understandable. sry for my bad english :(
@maryannemax (12170)
• Sweden
4 Feb 07
you better give her some time to be on her own. if she has some reasons for breaking up with you, respect her. she might only need space for sometime. just be there for her when she needs you.
@PomFect (204)
• Israel
4 Feb 07
Yeah i guess so, i'll give her a time. i'm alrdy respecting her and she know thet, i dont think she need time becouse we are looking each ather not to much, and the much dats she determineing. she told me her reason, but its not enough and its bad excuse.
@cheenlly (3483)
• Philippines
5 Feb 07
just give her space as for the moment and give her time to think. Maybe she is just stress and pressure so she need time to think and be alone. If everything is ok and you think it will be a right time to talk with her then do it. But i would not say you expect for getting back. dont expect anything for you not to get hurt. Just to clarify only the reason. Be a man and face whatever it is.