Do you have to be weak or cowardly to consider suicide?
By Bee1955
@Bee1955 (3882)
United States
February 4, 2007 10:00am CST
I am considered a highly educated, independent and well-rounded individual; who tried to commit suicide not once, but twice. Once for love (how foolish I was) and the other after hearing I had a terminal illness (ditto). You never know when depression will hit you HARD - its not a matter of being "weak" or immature" or even "cowardly", so never be so quick to judge.
When I was brought back from death the 2nd time I was finally made to realize that everyone's life is precious and you DO have value in the world. It may seem lonely at times; you may feel unappreciated and/or in a "dead end", but there is always someone out there who remembers you and what you did for them and they are grateful, even tho you are unaware of the impact you made on their lives. If your life was snuffed out in such a way as suicide, they, not to mention many others, would be devastated, and will reflect perhaps their lives are not worth the effort either because their friend and mentor didnt.
Suicide is a selfish act - you're not hurting only yourself - you would be killing the spirits and memories of hundreds of others. Thats not a legacy anyone wants to leave behind.
Remember what I wake up to ponder everyday: "Today's a new day to live and make something of myself for God and the sake of others".
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@crud3w4re (155)
• United States
4 Feb 07
Even though I hate my life, I still love myself, therefore, I would never kill myself.
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@bonnielass (484)
• United States
5 Feb 07
You not week or cowardly your having a mental illness or breakdown. both which would need attention. People who attempt to kill or harm themselves have a lot of troubles inside that should not get ignored. Its important to know the signed and seek help if the thought crosses your mind. See its not a natural thought. We are programed in our genes to survive so if we thinking to end our own life its a sign to seek help. It means there is something terribly wrong and its something that we ourselves cannot help on our own. Depression is a real disease. It doesn't mean your weak. It means you need help from a doctor like any other disease.
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@jricbt (1454)
• Brazil
5 Feb 07
Sorry to read that, I can only wish the best for you.
Answering your question, in my opinion, No, one doesn't need to be weak or cowardly, just have to be depressed, confused.
It is a sad thing when happen, and people should not be too fast to judge, not without knowing the whole picture.
@deeeky (3667)
• Edinburgh, Scotland
5 Feb 07
There are many reasons for us to think that we are not a worthy person in this life. The best way is to think of the good things that we can do and think about the good in everyone and do not think of any bad things. Bad thoughts are a negative aspect of life and should be avoided. Only think of good things and good will spread itself around to all.
@ailene713 (97)
• Philippines
5 Feb 07
in some ways, it may be cowardness. in some ways, it might be due to lack of inner strength. and, maybe in some ways, it may be because of lack of purpose in life, lack of love, and the basic human need of being appreciated which no one has filled.
sometimes, the thought that we may not live long enough to do all we want to do in life will make us enjoy and love our life more. but this is reality, this is how life seems to be in most cases. day by day may we treat it as a miracle that unfolds. some people are not that blessed to see the same sunshine that we see each morning.
hope you have recovered from the idea of killing yourself. take each day one at a time. and be grateful for the many blessings. cheers!!
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@pam041826 (11)
• Philippines
5 Feb 07
That's nice,,, good to hear that you finally see the light. And realize how important life is. Enjoy life,,,GOD bless you and your family,,!!=)
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@highflyingxangel (9225)
• United States
5 Feb 07
No, no I don't think so. I think you've just reached the end of your rope and see no alternative. I don't think your cowardly or weak. I just think you've given up, and I dont think that's weak or cowardly.
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@Irishflame1 (57)
• Japan
5 Feb 07
Ive been through a lot, grief, illness, busted relationships, disloyal family.You must have grit! Never ever let anyone or anything beat you down!!You will be stronger and people will feel that and respect you.
@abhiquest (579)
• India
5 Feb 07
I think in such times a person should start afresh and look for things which could help him/her live a changed life.
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