upset with parents

United States
February 4, 2007 11:27am CST
last night was a bad night, came home from work, and start talking and end up being ask how much money i had save, i told them, not alot right now, I spend tons of money trying to open a cd store but it didnt work out. and i also invested some money on tax lien. and they yelling at me that i am wasting all my money on useless junk, i should start saving my money, i try to explain to them what tax lien and that i am closing down the cd store, but they dont want to hear, so i just left upset at them, what should i do when they dont want to listen to me, should i just get over with it?
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5 responses
@polachicago (18716)
• United States
5 Feb 07
Just be proud to survived your first failure, I did many before I was able to start business smart way. It may be better for you to moved and live along or remind parents sometime how old you are.
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• United States
6 Feb 07
yeah i just find out how tought it is to start a business, but i cant move i have to take care of them. so i have to do that on the side. maybe in the near furture.
@mbarryton (1872)
• United States
5 Feb 07
to me it sounds like they are afraid to see try something new and fail they dont want to see you hurt but at the same time maybe you should save your money and when/if the time comes you could try to open up your cd store again or who knows maybe something better
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• United States
5 Feb 07
yea but i alreday started but now it is not working so i am closing it down, but they dont understand that i need some support you know, it doesnt has to be money. just so i know that they are ok with it but they dont even give me that.
@Dolcerina (3376)
• Hungary
4 Feb 07
Just do your things. They are probably affraid that you will not live your life. I am sure that they got to know that one of your same age relative , or an old schoolmate has a super business, or big house etc.. and they are embarrased why are not you..why is not their son so succesful. Probably they felt shame when somebody told them news about son or daughter, or grandchildren... Anyway they want good to you, so ask them how do they think? what should you do?
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• United States
4 Feb 07
i dont know what to do right now i am a little upset, maybe they would understand more later when i start making more money. that way they can see it my way how i do things. but as right now they stuck with their own way, of doing things, they dont like taking chance. and i am totaly differnt from them. so i dont know at this point maybe in the furture they would understand.
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@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
4 Feb 07
at least you work. you will be able to save if you keep working. your business can be sold, it is an investment already. I don't know what tax lien is, over here we file tax claim evey few months and get return from it or some people have to pay.
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• United States
5 Feb 07
my business wont be able to sell because it is not making money, i am just hopping i can sell some of the cds for some money. tax lien is a lien you put on someone's house when they dont pay for tax.
• Switzerland
4 Feb 07
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• United States
5 Feb 07
that sounds like a tons of work, i will check the links out and get back to you. thanks