Dont hurt me like this....

India
February 5, 2007 4:39am CST
Why do people easily hurts me or should i say, why do i get hurted easily. One of my sister says that i take each and every word very seriously and i think about everything very deeply. Is this really bad for some one??? What shall i do to relief myself of not thinking so much in every matter. How can i take every thing in life very casual while i take it seriously? Please help me....... out in this critical situation of life....... I really get hurted if people shouts at me , abuses me or rather misbehaives with me even if i am not the person to expect all these in any situation.
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@redrain (29)
• Indonesia
5 Feb 07
it's not bad to be someone who take every word seriously like you did. there's nothing wrong with your personality. but, your sister is right too. people cann't take every negative word seriously, sometime they need to relax & take that word easyly or by making fun on it. well, you must be used told to be relax & not to think about everything very deeply. you don't need to change if you don't want to. it's ok to be serious, there will be someone who can understand you. but, if you really want to change, you can talking back to someone who shouts / abuse you for a start. don't end up in fighting though. or, you can try to joke by shout or acting angry to your sister. remember!! it's a joke & just for fun!! don't end up seriously. be strong in your heart