Excess sympathy for disabled people?

Excess sympathy isn't excatly a bad thing. (imo) Least those who show this truly care and want to help. i personally try to avoid showing that i feel sorry for someone but this doesn't mean i won't lend a hand if needed. vulnerable to be dependent? not really. i think most will do it for themself and if they need support i'm sure they'll say. I'm amazed how so many are strong willed and this is what should be encouraged. What should be done? whatever they choose. if someone wants help or an helper so be it. (thats cool) if they don't then again thats fine. Kudos. ~Joey