Why Have an AFFAIR???

United States
October 11, 2006 7:12am CST
Why not just leave the person you're with?
1 person likes this
9 responses
• Australia
11 Oct 06
Its the thrill of the secrecy I guess.Personally I couldn't do that to another person and I would hate it if it was done to me. If you are in a relationship with someone you should have more respect for them than that.
11 Oct 06
I agree with you there. Its a respect thing! If you respect someone you dont treat them badly and if you have fallen out of love with them you should have enough respect for them to tell them. Easier said than done though!
• United States
11 Oct 06
it might hurt you or the other person to say that you don't want to be with them anymore but its a whole lot less painful than them finding out you had/are having an affair
@CRAPSTOP (10)
• United States
3 Feb 07
What if you TRY leaving and the person clings onto you like you are the only person on earth? Sometimes cheating is the only way to enjoy yourself and keep that psycho at home happy.
@tater03 (1765)
• United States
11 Oct 06
I could not agree with you more. Why don't people just leave. I feel that the reason you wouldn't leave is because you are a very selfish person. That was not directed to you in any way, just that I feel it takes a very selfish person tho have an affair.
@masbaaz (395)
• India
11 Oct 06
I think to live the person you are with. Donot belive in affairs especially illegal affairs.
@franhrnt (185)
• United States
11 Oct 06
I am presently seeing a married man and he won't leave his wife because of monetary reasons and that's okay with me because I don't want to commit to anyone.
11 Oct 06
Just playing devils advocate, but it has been known that an affair can in fact help a marriage by making a couple realise that the grass is not always greener on the otherside and how much you really do feel for eath other. Some couples ( and i did say some ) come out stronger after an affair
@diju03 (535)
11 Oct 06
thats right. it s an unhealthy social practice to have affairs of any kind.
@anand20 (214)
• India
11 Oct 06
so tat we can share our secrets
11 Oct 06
Perhaps for the thrill of the danger of being caught, might make it more exciting?? (by the way im not agreeing with people having affairs, just a possible reason why)