Would you ever marry someone who has been divorced twice?

China
February 5, 2007 1:45pm CST
Would you ever marry someone who has been divorced twice?
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• United States
6 Feb 07
I would consider it. The circumstances of the relationship would have to have been horrible, perhaps the man was duped into marriage under false pretenses, or maybe after they were married the women changed and became hurtful. I wouldn't dive right into marriage with that person though. I'd want to wait awhile and test the waters to make sure we were doing the right thing.
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• China
6 Feb 07
Thanks for ur response best of luck friend
@minerc (1373)
• United States
5 Feb 07
Depending on the divorce reason's. Yes I would sometimes it is not the other person's fault for the divorce, maybe they were being abused, or there wife left because of stupid reasons.
• China
6 Feb 07
Thanks for ur response best of luck friend
@dhigambaram (1132)
• India
5 Feb 07
May be let me think.....coz in Indian culture its is a gr8 probz.Parents will never agree with this .....so i have to take my disscussion on that ..... that y said "MAY BE " lemme think...
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• China
6 Feb 07
Thanks for ur response best of luck friend
@smf210 (102)
• United States
5 Feb 07
Yes. If I truly loved the person, and I knew deep down that he and I would work, I would marry someone who has been divorced twice. I think taking someone's past into account is a very important step, but you cannot hold it against the person. I would just try to find out what happened with his previous relationships and use it as a learning tool for how to make us work. Maybe he had been divorced twice because God wanted him to find me. Our compatability would be more important than his incompatability with the other two people.
• China
5 Feb 07
thanks for ur response best of luck friend
5 Feb 07
twice???!!!.... ummm...frankly speaking NO!!... i mean ..if the person has been divorced TWICE...there might be some reason for it rite?? either it is his/her fault or he/she has found some fault in the partner....wich that person may continue to find in the new partner too...!!! so its basically a hopeless case....! but ofcourse it depends from person to person....
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• China
5 Feb 07
thanks for ur response best of luck friend
@candygurl24 (1880)
• Canada
5 Feb 07
I think that while some people would not bother to do so because of the past, I would take that chance. You can't possibly know what went wrong with the last marriages, it might have been him/her that you are thinking of marrying, or it might have been their partner that complicated the marriage. It could also just be that they fell out of love. I would definitely ask around a bit, with his knowledge of course, but I wouldn't put him off totally.
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• China
5 Feb 07
thanks for ur response best of luck friend