Is cats better than having real kid?
@starrynytkitty (8)
Philippines
February 5, 2007 10:08pm CST
Im 27 and not yet married, doesn't have kids on my own. Most people think that when you're at marrying age (25. in our place) and not yet married they named you already "sultera" or spinster. They will say you should have kid by now if you married early. Well, I'm not im still in the way of career success and dont mind if dont have a child of my own yet. Maybe someday. Basically i dont worry coz i have my cats to play with and show my love and affection.
How about your situation? care to tell me?
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@lipsheer (1)
• Philippines
6 Feb 07
Hi sis! we're of the same age. we've gone the same high school too!!:) it's really okay even we don't have kids yet.. have the time to enjoy life to the fullest. don't mind if people say you will be a spinster..hey we are still young!! i know what you feel. but sometimes i get the thought that its hard to grow old alone... if you are happy with cats as of the moment then its really okay. we musn't worry. it'll happen the right time!
@goddessno27 (17)
• United States
6 Feb 07
hi I was the same way although i did get married at 25 i did not intend on having children-i had my cats. i had 4 cats they are loving very self sufficient. you dont need a babysitter unless you will be gone longer than ,i dont know two days tops. they dont talk back . i love them . i just planned on being the crazy cat lady on the block. i have two kids now which i would not give back. of corse there are days that i would like to.the way i look at it is you have your life-sow your wild oats-so to speak and when you are ready then think about kids. you will be more patient if you feel like you lived your life and then move on to the nextphase---Mommy. its even ok i think if you choose not to have kids. i used to say that,that i didnt want kids cuz' the world is so crazy
