love marriage Vs Arrange marrigae
@thomas_scariah (2)
India
7 responses
@cachitodemialma (1313)
• United States
6 Feb 07
I think your question doesnt really make sense. I personally have met a man who I love who loves me & its a wonderful thing. I know a man who is married to a woman that was arranged by his family and after many years they have grown to love each other & now have 6 children. I think finding love on your own is much better than being forced to marry somebody you do not know or even love for that matter.
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@qiuyishui1980 (220)
• China
6 Feb 07
Hello,Thomas.
Although we think the arranged marriage is a viod marriage, and the marriage for love's can be happy in future. But my grandpa and grandma's marriage is marriaged, and their life have many grand time. They think that plain life is important for living a happy life.
Today most couples marriage for love, and they happiness also. I think love can be happen wheneven, also before marriage and after marriage. so the important thing is love is everwhere.
@Lush_heidi (994)
• United States
6 Feb 07
I know some cultures believe and practive arranged marriage so its not a stupid question, because I know it does happen.
Personally to me, I would rather have love- arranged marriages may one day lead to love, but they may not. Love is such a wonderful feeling and marriage to someone you love thats your best friend is beyond words! I married my love almost 20 years ago and we have 2 beautiful daughters, and a grandbaby.So our love continues to grow with each new branch of the family tree
And before I forget, welcome to mylot! I hope you enjoy it here and will active here too!
@MommieMoney (102)
• United States
6 Feb 07
So you would rather last forever with someone you may have never met until the moment you said I do and my never be able to love, just so you can say, 'my marriage might last longer than yours'?
Just wondering because I can't see the logic there.
@MommieMoney (102)
• United States
6 Feb 07
Okay I know I'm only making you a bit more money here I guess. If I understand how all of this works. But come on, what kind of questions is this? If you can't figure out the answer on your own then I'd say you shouldn't get married period. Just my opinion.
