What are you more afraid of, dying or having someone close to you die?

@d00d00 (826)
Hong Kong
February 6, 2007 6:36am CST
i guess for me, it's having someone close to me die. what's yours?
4 responses
supra_guy
@supra_guy (165)
• Romania
6 Feb 07
yes i'm scared for somebody close to me die because it will hurt me as long as i live but if i die myself i can't feel anything from that moment.
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d00d00
@d00d00 (826)
• Hong Kong
6 Feb 07
right. when "our"-selves die, we wont feel a thing.. but if our family/friends die, god, it hurts.
scitrus
@scitrus (131)
• United States
6 Feb 07
Someone close to me as dying. It's a cowardly way of thinking, wanting to be gone first so you don't have to suffer. But I think we all think it.
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d00d00
@d00d00 (826)
• Hong Kong
6 Feb 07
yes, i feel the same way as well. although it's a cowardly thing to say, but i hope i'll die first other than those close to me die.
Datingtheplayer
@Datingtheplayer (661)
• United States
10 Feb 07
For me it is having someone close to me die because i dont know how to deal witht hat... to deal witht he loss of someone i know so well and care for die.... i just dont know how i would do it.
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cerium
@cerium (691)
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10 Feb 07
I am afraid of having someone close to die. It is just the pain of missing someone is really hard. And since I will die sooner or later, so why not to die without much pain? :)
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