Is boyfrnd/girlfrnd really important

India
February 6, 2007 10:20am CST
Hi frnds i am little bit confused by seeing that everyone wants to have a partner before the marriage and want to go for love marriage against the parents.. from my point of view its not very important. .. v hav a lot of frnds with whom we can share anything besides parents.. i hav my elder sister wid whom i can share anything.. whts ur view?? is boyfrnd/girlfrnd really matters in life b4 marriage??
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@nedrat (69)
• India
6 Feb 07
Guess its just to show off before their friends. Or we can say that the movies are having an influence on our youth. They just feel like having someone to talk to late into the night over the phone, someone to go with for a movie, a date. Its just something in their head
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• India
6 Feb 07
Yeah u r very much true... even i think tht it is bcoz of the movies..
• United States
6 Feb 07
No, I don't think it's important. I'm perfectly happy being independent, and at this point, I couldn't care less if I ever get married.
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• United States
7 Feb 07
I think it is very important to go for a love marriage. Although I know some other cultures do not marry for love, I couln't imagine marrying someone that I didn't love. And yes, had my parents tried to choose a husband for me, and I had no feelings for him, I would have went against my parents and not married him. My parents didn't really care for my husband when I first started dating him, but I married him anyhow. And now they love him. So maybe it is the parents and family that should adjust, and not the one getting married.