what's thE best wAy tO stoP fallinG in loVe??

Philippines
February 7, 2007 1:35am CST
he's my bestfriend. i don't want to ruin our friendship. i just realized that i am falling for him.ugh. he might avoid me, or take advantage of me if he would know. so i must stop whatever feelings i have for him. how do i control it?
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@dhigambaram (1133)
• India
7 Feb 07
haii laichan .... well i dnt knw how to stop ...but one i can say u cant able to stop even if you did thousands try ...because ture love cant b forget .... u always rem'ber him/her throught ur life.....Y im saying is this ...i passed this thing in my life .....nd now im love with her she 2oo ... that y i sadi this thigs .... u cant do that ?
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@babyjane (1395)
• Philippines
7 Feb 07
You can't stop falling inlove girl. Maybe confront him if he doesn't have any gfs 'coz it's good to be true than hide something that's really hurtful, right? Friendship will still remain after your confrontation. Just told him like a joke thing for you to know his reaction.
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@hattipunk (434)
• Nepal
7 Feb 07
well the best way not to fall in love is to stop goin out of ur house.. do not look at boys or gals ..thats the best way..
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@archiee (322)
• India
7 Feb 07
ignore him for some time and try.. might be he starts to get things in his mind or its that he cares for you a lot and that makes you love him. then this is not love at all. if you go on behaving this way you will surely break relation one day. try and make yourself busy somewhere
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• Philippines
27 Feb 07
hi Lai..you know what, If it is really love, you might find it hard to stop yourself form falling for him...specially that he is your bestfriend...i think the best thing you can do to tell him the truth....truth will set you free.
• China
7 Feb 07
Hello,laichan. Welcome to mylot. But why not to trial to love hime? If he is worth to your love, so be courage to face your true feelings. Good luck to you,my dear.
@oarnamav (2708)
• India
7 Feb 07
Yoe just avoid him all the time. If he has started on the path of getting ruined, now you can't help him anyway. It's not necessary for anybody to be a friend and need to see him regularly. You still can be a friend by not meeting him for years together. A fire which has been lit, seldom can be estinguished. You are late!
@xiayifeng (560)
• China
7 Feb 07
You can't tell him the truth if you don't want to ruin your friendship. So what you can do is that you can tell your another friend which is the friend of him. I think he or she will help you and you will continue be best friends