Betrayal?

Philippines
February 7, 2007 4:29am CST
I have just registered in this site. Anyway, here's my story. I have or should I say "had" my gf for about 5-6 years now and just on the opening of this 'love month" something really terrible happened. I was not able to contact here for about 17 days and then when I finally have a chance last friday, she was not angry at all but rather said to me "Its just okay, I mean, Its okay because its I who have a sin to you"..and she admitted to me that she almost had "s--" with my close friend way back in high school who was also a classmate fo mine in that time. The three of us are classmates. She admitted to me that she was the one who seduce the guy and I was in a fury while she was talkiing and I cant help myself but to react abruptly with anger..because we are miles away from each other and its a long distance relationship..I planned on making a revenge but then again I cant do it..What do you think is the best way for me?
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• United States
8 Feb 07
I think somehow it's good that your girlfriend was totally honest with you. But then again, I think it was easier for her to admit that she cheated on you because it was a long-distance relationship and she didn't have to tell you face-to-face. In any way, now that you know, I think trying to get back at her (or avenging yourself) is not a good idea. You will just punish yourself in the process. Just let it be and play it by ear. If you really love her, fight for her. If you have doubts about your feelings for her, then let her go and date other girls. It's normal to undergo painful experiences because that's how we learn and grow (or mature).
@RAMPersona (2037)
• Philippines
7 Feb 07
it's natural you'd be furious, it's not a funny surprise.. you'd instantly think you've been suckered the whole time.. but think, think hard "why she said that.." try to figure out, do you really know her to the core, does her saying felt that she's really guilty or just a response from a zombie, or she is just trying to test you, know your reaction.. end of it all, you and her need to have a heart-to-heart talk..