women betrayal?

@gangasa (220)
India
February 7, 2007 6:47am CST
hi this is a very interesting propostion and let me see how u guys respond to it? do u guys think that a women having extra marital affair is victim of the situation..............i mean to say a women when not satisfied by her husband gets involved in extra marital affair that means her husband was unable to satisfy her on the contrary he was satisfied and hence she may be considered as the victim of the situation what do u say?
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5 responses
• United States
7 Feb 07
Cheating is cheating, regardless of how you try to justify it. In the age that we live in, a woman KNOWS what she's getting before she goes into a relationship, so if she's not satisfied, it's by her own choice, and if she has an affair, that too is by her own choice...
@gangasa (220)
• India
7 Feb 07
well agreed but women dont know before going to a relationship that will he be going to satisfy me and it is similar for the man too is not it?
@kerbausama (1338)
• Malaysia
7 Feb 07
i dont think so..you say say a women when not satisfied by her husband gets involved in extra marital affair that means her husband was unable to satisfy her on the contrary he was satisfied and hence she may be considered as the victim of the situation..she should make the relationship great..
@gangasa (220)
• India
7 Feb 07
why do we give all the responsibilty to women dont you think it is the moral responsibilty of man to satisfy his wife?
@Myrrdin (3601)
• Canada
26 Feb 07
No I don't think at all she is the victim. If she was not being satisfied then she owes it to herself and her husband to talk to him about it not go out and screw around on him. Now if they discussed it and he said sure go out and meet some guy to satisfy you, just come home to me, then it would be ok, otherwise its cheating, and nothing justifies it. I think sometimes people are willing to justify such things with lame excuses like that, but there is always other options other then lying and cheating. I mean ok he can't satisfy her like that, well then there are toys, his tongue other things. If the woman is that miserable that she feels the need to cheat and communicating isn't working then she should grow a backbone and walk away, to do otherwise is cowardice.
@urbandekay (18314)
7 Feb 07
What rot, are you then going to say that if a man has an affair because he is unsatisfied he is the victim? No, being an adult means taking responsibility for yourself. All the best urban
@Corvin (417)
• Philippines
7 Feb 07
I don't not... this kind of situation is lack of communication to each other. The woman is not the victim, why? because why would she commit an action if she knows its not right, if the woman is smart and has heart on it... she would never cheat her husband. If the husband has lack on the relationship isn't better if they talk it first? i've been already cheated by my girlfriend and it really hurts because i was the one who's been loyal to her and then she done a horrible thing to our relationship.