im in love with my ex

October 11, 2006 5:51pm CST
i was with my ex for a while then he got sent to work abroad? he was gone for 7 months he came home in the middle for 1 week we wrote letters everyday and it was great but!!! i feel for one of hes best mates while he was away any 4 and half years later i have a 2 year old child that i would not change for the world but i have split after 4 and a half years? and started seeing the ex and he is now married with a new born but we know we made mistakes? and are ment to be together what do i do?
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• United States
12 Oct 06
you started seeing the ex who is now married? then in my opinion you are wrong to be seeing him the same as he is wrong to be seeing you. he has a family he should be thinking about and you should be too, 4 1/2 years is an awful long time to wait to decide you made mistakes. you also need to to keep in mind that others will get hurt because of your actions, and here is something else to think about, if a man will cheat/go behind his wife's back to see you, then what makes you so sure he could ever be faithful to you, when he has proven he has no problem with cheating? if he would cheat on her, then he most likely would cheat on you, is it worth wrecking another persons family for a cheater?
@katyzzz (2897)
• Australia
12 Oct 06
Both of you should forget each other and move on with your lives and your individual commitments. Your ex, with a new baby, has no conscience. Why would you want such a loser? Grow up and take life a little more seriously.
@HomerBundy (1325)
• United States
12 Oct 06
im a little lost...let me read it again...