How can you say goodbye to your ex boyfriend?

Philippines
February 7, 2007 10:09pm CST
I am now married and my ex boyfriend for 3 years is keep on calling me again though he knows I am already married, I do not really want to entertain him anymore I even told him to leave me alone, but still he kept on calling. I am worried that when my husband found out about it, it could start a big trouble. What should I do? How can i shoo him away???
1 person likes this
5 responses
@slickcut (8141)
• United States
10 Feb 07
since you have made it very clear to him to leave you alone,and he keeps calling it will tear your marriage apart.I would suggest that you hang up on him everytime he calls and he will finally get the message..If you do that awhile and he still calls ,then change your number...
• United States
10 Feb 07
You should tell him If he doesnt live you alone, you will call the police on him. If that doesnt work you might have to resort to telling your husband. If he finds out you have been talking to him, he might take it the wrong Idea and take it out on you. SO honesty might be the best answer.
@Anakata2007 (1785)
• Canada
9 Feb 07
Get call display and don't answer your phone when he calls. Or if you do answer the phone, hang up on him right away. Or tell your husband the whole story and have your husband answer the phone and tell him not to call again. If none of this works, go to the police and get a restraining order.
@iahnives (48)
• Philippines
8 Feb 07
One answer: change your number! If he still finds you because you've common friends, change your friends! hehehe...kidding =) no, really, he would stop if he feels you're so NOT interested. men knows when girls aren't interested but they are, you know what i mean? if you're really over him, as in really, then he would stop. but if you give reasons for him not to stop, then he would not. if you still answer his calls and tell him to stop calling, he knows you're still interested. but if you don't answer at all and change your number then i believe he gets the idea. as they say..."kung gusto may paraan, kung ayaw may dahilan" (am i right, or is it vice versa? whatever. you know what i mean)
• Philippines
9 Feb 07
It's all up to you really. You got a choice to change your number but that would be a little uncomfortable. ryt? Y not talk it out with your husband that there was this person in your life , so & so. Then just ignore him.