How do you deal with problems?

Problems happen because we attract it to our life. Every problem has its solution. Without rain you are not able to see sun. I just move forward, life is beautiful.

I try to face problems in an effective manner. I like to step back and look at everything that is involved, and weigh the pros and cons. I try to see all the choices I could make regarding the problem. Sometimes, I sit back and let nature take its course, and let the problem work itself out. (My sister calls me an "overanalyzer".) I really used to just go off at a problem. I like this new way I've become.

Do what you want. If you are happy at the weight you are then don't list to any one else. Family shouldn't care what you weigh as long as you are healthy. If they don't then you should move out as soon as you can.