Losing Touch

Yes sometimes i feel i am loosing touch with my friends. In fact since the time I have got myself a full time job, I hardly get the time to meet up with any of my friends. I try to keep up with them by calling / messaging them but that is also not very regular. I am so tired after i come back from office that i hardly have the energy to talk to anyone. I do try to call in between office hours but can hardly talk for 5 to 6 minutes.

like i said, life's just getting more virtual..its true that we sometimes are losing touch with our good friends, but that lies within our own hands..It depends on how much importance we give to our friends...sometmies, things do happen, in a way we dont want it to!!..but, we've to try our best to control our life!!

Growing up, I always had a lot of friends. I have many that I still email but that is about it. I know I should probably do more with them as they helped me through a tough part in life and vice versa. Recently, I had been going through some more really bad family stuff and I was sending out updates to all my friends via email. Only one friend kept in constant contact with me. But one day I got an email from another friend and she said that even though she didn't respond back to me, she always thought of me and was glad that I was keeping her updated. I beleieve that life does sometimes get in the way. We all have our own lives now when before we mainly just had each other. I know they still care about me and I care about them. Maybe someday I will arrange a get together with them. I know I should but all of us are always busy. It sucks being an adult sometimes.

Sometimes circumstances move us away from each other, and even the physical distance between us doesn't matter much than just situations.

I wouldnt so much as say that life gets in the way, but I certainly think we seem to branch off in other directions wich is normal. See, Im the only one of my frineds that has a child so yes we drifted apart a bit because im not out on the town anymore and theyre still partying lol. We still talk on the phone but it seems as though they are quite busy, where im a stay at home mum. But I think that if they are true friends then no matter what, eventually and at different times in your life you will come back together. I beleive its just the way life goes but these special freinds are always there in the background someway, if you know what i meen.

I think we take the ease of contacting each other for granted, and let the communication slip. Another thing is, I have way more friends than people in previous generations did. I have over 200 friends on myspace, all of who are people I have known (or bands that I like) but I don't keep in contact with a lot of them. I always make an effort to keep up with the people that really matter to me though. so I have a small core group of friends, and modern techonology does make keeping in contact easier.

oh yeah. i have lost touch with almost everyone i ever knew. its sad and makes me feel like a crapy person but i think these things just happen when you move around alot like i do.

Yeah usually i am feeling like that and it's sad