16 Feb 07
pretending is DEFINITELY not good ... u just cant let it get to u !! see .. if u pretend to be someone that ur not, then ppl are getting fond of someone else and NOT YOU!! ... so y not BE urself and show ppl wat a TERRIFIC person u really ARE :)
• New Zealand
11 Jul 10
Let's say you just met someone who really likes you, and you really like them. Okay, STOP! At this point, some of us start to pretend to be someone else to impress that someone. But the reality is...if that someone really liked you, they liked you for who you are. So why do you have to pretend to be someone else?
9 Feb 07
You know we have heard this for a millions times probably..."Be yourseflf (or maybe yourselves for some...lol).I believe that being yourself is the best way to though. some people don't really know who they are so how can be themselves. I think the first thing that a person should do is find out who she/he really are. How can you be yourself when you have got no idea who you are.For a while I was actually not sure who I was before, not that I'm saying that I definitely know who I am, I mean I still discover new things about me until now...