Would You Marry A Man Who Once Raped you..

i might forgive him but marrying? i don't think i'll be able to forget what he did. i've had a friend and rape had really ruined her life. she was really affected by what happened and i'm not sure if she would be able to actually forgive the person who did that to her.

Thats a tough question to answer. I am assuming you mean some one who you may have dated?

Hell no! I could possibly forgive the person but not marry them. I really wouldn't want anything to do with them. I'm sorry I don't really believe he could be that much of a changed man and he is bound to do something messed up again. Coming from some one who has been raped, I just think this is a really really really really really bad idea. She should tell him he is forgiven and let it go... get him out of her life.

No, I wouldn't marry him. I would run as fast as I could away from him. There is no way. If he did it once, he will rape again. I couldn't even forgive him much less forget what he did. He hasn't changed, one day something might set him off again and then where would she be? He'll do it again. Don't chance it. Who is to say that once she marries him that he won't go back to the same old creep?

hey...absolutely no...even if he bended his knees in front of me...absolutely no...

I may have forgiven him but i would never marry him. Violating another person is one of the heinous crime that one could commit to another human being. He may be a changed man but i wont change what he has done... forgive him, i could, but marry a rapest? Never!

No way. I might be able to forgive. I dont see how it would be possible to lose the fear of recurrance. I think if he was capable of abuse once he would be again and I would always be in fear.

I hope you do not consider this. Once you have lost trust in a partner it is very difficult to regain. And abuse is very difficult to deal with under all circumstances. You should think about this carefully.

noooooo way....!! hez probably doin that...so that you dont complain....and send him to jail!!!! once a basta**d always a basta*d...!!! i dont think u should trust yourself to such a man

i don`t think i would because maybe he came back, maybe he changed, maybe he is realy nice lately but still he was to bed to u so to marry him? hmmm... i dont think so unless what he did wasn``t so bed!

No way. If he did it once, there's alway the change he might do it again.

I would never let such a person get back into my life in the first place, hopefully he will be in jail for a looong time before he gets that opportunity.

Nope, I wouldn't. I want a man who can respect me. I could forgive him but I don't think I could give my trust to someone who did me wrong.