children

United States
February 10, 2007 5:26am CST
when you have children shouldn't there needs come before yours?
3 responses
@NancyLobo (680)
• India
10 Feb 07
yes, mostly children's needs come before your sit is anatural to think like that, Unknowingly the mother accepts that, she thinks of her children's happiness first, some mothers sacrifice their career to look after the children's needs.
• United States
10 Feb 07
ok heres somthing, why do they say only the mother takes care of the kidds. i'm a father and i do everything for my kid? why don't dads get any kind of rekignition?
• India
10 Feb 07
There are some fathers who are more dedicated than mothers, but mostly mothers take the responsibility of children fathers are expected to work and provide.
@mhv236690 (341)
• India
10 Feb 07
putting your childrens need before yours is really good but ignoring your needs is far worse than putting their needs 1st
• United States
10 Feb 07
so lets say this. you and your spouse break up seperate whatever, you meet this new person, and you like them very much. but they don't want nothing to do with you child then what should you do. i would dumo that person. but thats just me.
• United States
10 Feb 07
Exactly the reason I don't have kids. I know so many people who don't put their kids first. Maybe because they were too young and too selfish when they had them. Most of my friends kids that are about 16-20 years old right now are a mess. Don't care about school, have very little respect. Vile little things really. I think you should have to prove you are financially and mentally able to have kids and animals. If I did have a kid, I would not introduce my children to someone unless I knew the other person actually liked children. There would just be no discussion about it. Kids first, always.