always being compared how do you handle it?

Philippines
February 10, 2007 10:09am CST
i was always being compared with my sister since we only have a 2 year age gap and we are going in the same school since elementary till now that we are in college. it puts me in a pressure and it really frustrates me especially when i hear people saying.."oh your sister is like this and like that.... she's good in my class..your sister is far better than you" grrr... on my first years of experiencing that...i always feel that i was confined in a little box and that i can't do anything but to be my sister's reflection good thing i have a good relationship my siblings and i have my friends guiding and holding my hands whenever i feel like im losing my confidence to myself. so now im getting used to it.
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