when was the last time you told your spouse/partner that she/he is............

Philippines
February 10, 2007 11:18am CST
lovely/handsome and that you love him /her dearly?me...i do tell her everyday just after bath and before bed(dnt ask me what happens next...its a secret...shhhh)a woman needs an honest appreciation and recognition and in all she does for her spouse/partner..it increases your spouses self esteem and confidence hence erasingany cloud of insecurity which may lead to unfactual jealousy....so guys dont take that away from them...its a part of the love we give them everyday...the same love we want from them everyday till death do us part....peace!
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• United States
10 Feb 07
How wonderful and what a great husband you must be. That is so sweet. My husband and I tell each other we love each other every single day. he is away right now. he lives in Florida while me and the kids are still in Texas until the summer time when we will be together again. Being apart puts a strain on the relationship, but we still tell each other how much we love each other. I just sent him an ecard yesterday telling him how much I love him and appreciate the sacrifices he is making by being away from the kids and me for so long in order to better our lives.
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• Philippines
10 Feb 07
thanks for sharing your thoughts and experience my friend,i wish you all the luck and blessings on your marriage/relationship...peace(to love a woman is to understand what she needs when she needs it and why she needs it...same as to wemen for the men..vice versa...)
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@thyst07 (2091)
• United States
11 Feb 07
I tell my partner that he is handsome/attractive/hot/sexy/gorgeous/etc. at least three times a day, usually more. I can't help it- he really is amazingly good-looking (in my humble opinion), and I think that it's important for him to know how attractive I find him. His self-esteem was kind of in the dumps when I met him, because of a nasty breakup and some other occurrences. Since I've been with him, I've seen his confidence boost considerably- because I make the effort to tell him every day just exactly how wonderful he is.
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• Philippines
17 Feb 07
you must be a damn fine partner dear friend...my best regards and lots of blesings to your relationship...keep loving!belated happy valentines!better late than never e...thanks for sharien your experience mam!
• Philippines
11 Feb 07
women yearn for affection especially if a relationship has gone a long way. Sometimes partners take each other for granted and they become insensitive. it'll make the relationship even stronger if affection is shown even in little things..
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• Philippines
12 Feb 07
Im in accord with your idea friend...communication in a relationship is indeed one of the most important ingredient in maintaining the fire of love and affection burning...peace!Happy valentines!
• Australia
11 Feb 07
Every day, more than once a day. We have been married for almost 47 years, but the magic is still there. In fact, it is stronger than ever.
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• Philippines
11 Feb 07
I feel realy happy to hear and know these kind of relationship/marriage continue to blossom!im a happy ending kind of guy you know...and for me these is a heartwarming news...thanks for sharing us your experience...best wishes and Godbless your marriage...my regards to you and your family...paece!
@beyonce03 (2331)
• Canada
10 Feb 07
I think I tell my boyfriend everyday. he knows how much I love him and that I appreciate everything that he does for me. My boyfriend his not really a speaker but he always do thing to show me ho much he love and appreciate me.
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• Philippines
11 Feb 07
action speaks luder than words..yaeh its true...i do agree with you friend...thanks for sharing your experience bout this discussion...peace!
@jbrooks0127 (2326)
• United States
10 Feb 07
Very good. This is the one thing most men do not do. They may have it all in thier hearts but find it so difficult to find the right time or know what to say. To bad all men can't or won't see this. You are good. Hard to beleive that any women would not love this.
• Philippines
10 Feb 07
Its because i learned from my dad...he treated and loved my mom well when he was still alive...i im just following his footsteps on how to love our wemen for them to love us back..like i always say its just a matter of family upbrining which brings out a loving man out of an ordinary man....thanks mam for sharing your thoughts regarding this discussion(SHALOM)Peace!
@sidoney (1033)
• Jamaica
26 Feb 07
its weird we have been together for over 5 yrs and we tell each other every day we talk a lot when we are togetther and when we go to work we spend all our lunch and break time talking that was when we had a job my co workers used to say way do I have to talk so much with him when we live together but they don't understand we love each other
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@hijas007 (1386)
• India
17 Feb 07
i dont have any girl friend,,so i cant answer to this! well if i got one i love here and love her so dearly!
@ESKARENA1 (18299)
17 Feb 07
we do this to each other every single day and have been doing for the last 17 years. I think it is vital for keeping a relationship alive blessed be
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• India
11 Feb 07
Anybody can`t stop smiling when the other is praising, that too when it is our dear ones that appreciation really has the sweetest taste, each and everyday your love fills your heart, when you start with "GOOD MORNING SWEET HEART, LET US HAV A NICE DAY AHEAD, (IF POSSIBLE WITH A KISS)" and end a day saying " I REALLY HAD NICE TIME WITH YOU TODAY,"......... THIS WILL WORK OUIT WELL........ try out.
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@lecanis (16664)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
11 Feb 07
I tell my husband he's handsome a lot, though really he doesn't accept that kind of compliment as well the "you're good at ____" type. And I always tell him I love him several times a day. I can't imagine being with someone and not doing so.
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• Philippines
11 Feb 07
I also tell everyday my partner that I love him. Its my daily routine. When I wake up in the morning, I kiss him and say I love u. When preparing our meals, I always tell him that.
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@carol79 (201)
• Philippines
11 Feb 07
I tell my hubby I love him every chance I get. I think it is very imprtant not only to say t but show it through actions like hugging him very tight, kissing him all the time, preparing him excellent meals, surprising him with something new, or just even calling him out of the blue.
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@n3v3rl0v3 (153)
• United Arab Emirates
11 Feb 07
I dont remember the date but it has been 3 weeks and 2 days I talked to her last time. We expressed/shared some of our feelings then I pinch a point of mess and end up on it.
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@rkalia73 (240)
• India
11 Feb 07
I do it at every chance I do get. I do it many times a day. This keeps our relationship in a very good shape....
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11 Feb 07
I tell my boyfriend i love him everyday, if we don't see each other we text or phone and say it. It's a lovely thing to hear and it never gets old. :]
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@sizzle3000 (3039)
• United States
11 Feb 07
My husband and I tell each other we love one another all the time. We kiss hello and good bye. I am not an insecure person that I need to be told all the time that he loves me or that I am nice looking. I have been married twenty years and I know my husband loves me and only me and he knows the same for me. When we are going some where special he will tell me I look good and I will tell him the same. If one of us is wearing a new outfit we will comment but on the whole he always looks good to me and I always look good to him. If you really love each other and there is trust and good communication there is no reason for jelousy. As long as you are both secure in your relationship. I think it is great that you want to tell your spouse how great she is but even that can become insincere if you do it all the time just to stroke her ego. too much of even a good thing can be bad.
@limcyjain (3523)
• India
10 Feb 07
I too get a good amount of appreciation from my husband over the dress i wear. He normally lets me know that i am looking great and he simply loves my looks. I too am quite generous in telling him that he is simply handsome. It really leaves a string of happiness all through the day.
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• Canada
10 Feb 07
i tell my fiance that i love him and can't live without him every day. . .he tells me about every hour which i think is really sweet and helps brighten my day
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• United States
1 Mar 07
I always tell my wife that I love her and how pretty she is. There is nothing better than suprising her with roses for no reason. I love being close to her and enjoy every waking moment that we have together.