Perving vs Admiring

United States
February 10, 2007 1:35pm CST
My boyfriend and I disagree on this. I believe his uncle is a pervert. He gawks at women, when you have a discussion with you looks you over, he makes lewd comments about women. My boyfriend says, he isnt a pervert but "an admirer of women". I think thats just saying pervert in a nicer way. What are your opinions? What constitutes as perving?
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@wmg2006 (5381)
• United States
11 Feb 07
Men will always protect their fellow men. They have no idea what a pervert is unless one is coming on to them or making them feel uncomfortable. I think any man who makes a woman feel uncomfortable is a pervert. The comments alone lets you know. I know sometimes there are just men who make me feel this way when they do not make others feel that way.
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@shatman (727)
10 Feb 07
i would say a pervert is more someone that constantly stares at any woman or man, and just cant take ther eyes off them, and is just thinking about getting with that person; whereas an admirer is more some that just thinks someone is good looking but has no real feelings for them
• United States
11 Feb 07
So a pervert has feelings for the person they are perving on?
@shatman (727)
11 Feb 07
not necessarily but maybe they could yes, because they could like them so much they cant keep there eyes off them