Really an oops?

United States
February 10, 2007 10:03pm CST
I was just wondering if anyone here told their spouse that their prgnancy was an accident but really you secretly planned it? I wanted a 2nd baby so bad. My son was getting older he was already 5. My husband was finding every excuse in the book why we could not have a baby. It was always the wrong time or not enough money or we need a bigger home ect. I knew it was never something we would actually be able to plan it would just have to happen. So I went off the pill without him knowing. I eventually got pregnant. So she beacame our oops baby. She will be 3 in March and we both could not emagine our lives without her. In some weird way I dont feel guilty about it at all. If I did not go behind his back we would not have our precious daughter. Since her we have had another daughter and she will be 1 in March. I was just curious to know if there are others holding in this big secret? How do you feel now?
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