Love Marriage Vs Arranged Marriage

Malaysia
February 11, 2007 8:04pm CST
We all have heard about people getting married after falling in love and some believe in getting married then fall in love. For me i met my wife online and we became good friends, later fell in love and so on. Which one do you think is better way of getting married in today's world?
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@lani0529 (1722)
• Philippines
12 Feb 07
I prefer knowing that person first before accepting marriage. Though, I've heard about arranged marriages that lasts and they really fell inlove to each other, but still, its best that you knew the person whom you will marry first. Marriage is still afar off in my mind. Its something sacred and special for me. I wished to be married to a guy who truly loves me and whom I love so that I will have no regrets in the future. I'm really sad about broken marriages and wives being bitter to their husbands and vice versa in the later years of being married.(",)
• Malaysia
12 Feb 07
Yes i have seen arranged marriages lasting but in today's world, men and women are both working and have independent lifestyles. They have opinions and are bold enough to talk about it. Its better to have love marriage as they need time to talk to each other and get to know each other before getting married.
@lani0529 (1722)
• Philippines
12 Feb 07
You have a point in there but, there are still cultures that practice arranged marriage until now. It works best to their own interest.
• Malaysia
12 Feb 07
Yes, I m from india and i know many families still believe in arranged marriages.
• China
15 Feb 07
Many of the couples surrounding me are arranged marrage and most of them are sweet and also ,many of mine classments and friends are getting marride after falling in love but fall in love from the line that I was just heard about but not contact with them . There are many ways from stranger become to lovers such as : on the board first and buy a ticket latter or through the introducer(the red thread which is China's traditional) Or other ways but the important I thought is that the lovers should know about each other . That's all . wow ,bless you and your wife have a sweet and happy life for ever. :)