Here's what happened! (aftermath of my best friend is cheating on his wife)

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This refers to my perivious discussion by the name of my best friend is cheating on his wife. First of all i would like to thank all those who gave their invaluable advice on how to deal with the predicament i was in. Almost everybody was of the opinion that i should give Hammie sometime and if he doesnt comes clean with his wife Alli i should do it for him, i also got many posts saying i should confront sandara (sandy) too, and than there were some who thought i should not interfere and let things be. I had already decided to confront sandy regarding this and i did, i thought being a woman and one of Alli's close friend she would understand the gravity of the situation and back off when i would explain just how serious the situation is! but i was dead wrong! now i am a firm believer in the saying "a woman is a womans wrost enemy" the response i got from Sandy was really shocking, it just shoke me to the core! she balantly said she loves hammie and he loves her, and she cant think of living without him, and that she was being "considerate" as she and hammie are planning to break the news to Alli "after" she has given birth! I clearly saw that there was no reasoning with this bitc# so i went to hammie's office and asked him if it was true. Hammie just seconded what Sandy had just told me! he was only holding back on the news cause Alli is pregnant! I tried my best to convince him about changing his mind but it was no use, i left his office quiet dejected! Users of mylot just bear with me one more time!! Hammie and sandy are going to tell Alli about it but are holding back because of her pregnancy, i know i ought to tell her but i am afraid what effect this devastating news might have on her unborn child! atleast hammie and sandy had enough humanity left to wait till the delievery! just one final opinion should i tell her right away about the infidelity of her husband and her supposedly best friend or follow hammie and sandy's pattern and wait till she has given birth? Common sense dictates that i tell her after the birth of her child but the friend in me says you owe her the truth, tell her before she hears it from those two, and realizes that you knew all along but kept it from her. Just one last time help me out like you people did before! it will be highly appreciated!