Where the attraction goes away?

February 12, 2007 4:49am CST
I have observed this phenomenon many times. A boy and girl meet and there are sparks flying around initially, they both want to be together all the time, they are so passionate about each other. But when the relationship matures and they've been together for quite a while, all the initial attraction starts to fade away, and the magic that was there before mellows down. Why this happens
2 responses
@jolope (988)
• Philippines
12 Feb 07
well you know..if its attraction then that fading away would really really happen..because you've done the purpose already..you've known the person..those people got to spend some time already..so that's what happens..they will most likely feel like they made a wrong choice and stay as friends..
• India
19 Feb 07
ya i think in a long term relationship if u happened to really love the person u r with then u ll still like that person even after many many years together
@aroraasr (428)
• India
12 Feb 07
It happens because they think they are in love but in fact it is just infatuation and it never lasts for long. Love the person from your heart and soul and you will never feel that magic has gone away.