Should I worry about my fiancee STILL being married to his wife!!!

United States
October 12, 2006 9:35pm CST
I've been dating Jay now for 2 years now and I feel like we are supposed to be together for ever. BUT I have this insecurity about him still being married to the other woman. I kinda feel like I don't have anything to look forward to at this time and that I am walking in someone else's shadow. Should I put the pressure on about getting a divorce and set a deadline or something, or just wait it out! I have so many mixed feelings.
2 responses
@Jshean20 (14374)
• Canada
20 Oct 06
You have every reason to feel insecure about this situation. I wonder why the heck he wouldn't have been divorced from his wife before even becoming engagged to you, this just doesn't seem fair to you and if I were you I would certainly put my foot down.
@JNKnaub (135)
• United States
13 Oct 06
Let me just say from experiance..make him get a divorce ASAP! and if he argues then you gotta let him go. I think men get off on being married and having a "girl on the side" even though that's not the case. Definatly set some kind of deadline and stick to what you say or you'll regret it forever!!!