will u invite ur first love back into ur life if they would like to come back

India
February 14, 2007 4:30am CST
so people i had a girl friend we had a bit of misunderstanding and got seperated so now she wants to come back into my life again after knowing her mistake so wat should i do??
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• India
18 Feb 07
I dont think there is no need to come back to your frist love.If there was a litlle of love they dont be separated.And you saying about misunderstanding.I think if ANYONE can mis understand you once then he/she can again.There are no misunderstanding in love.Only understanding between two soul exits there.
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• India
19 Feb 07
yes as u said there is no misunderstanding in love but wat if it occurs?? everyday is not sunday.................. if understanding did exsist as u said in the first place there is no reason to get saparated...........
• United States
18 Feb 07
Okay, you asked two questions here - so I have to give different answers. First question - if my first love came back into my life - would I take him back? YES, in a heart beat. I think about him all the time - and I can tell you that was before you were even born. Second question - should you take her back? Well, that depends - are you willing to move on and past the mistakes that happened? You mention she knows her mistake - but what about your mistake? There is never one side to the story - as my mother used to say, "It takes two people to tango and it takes two people to create an argument." There is no such thing as one person is to blame. Look very deeply at the situation and how you feel about it. If you can accept that you both made mistakes and that you are wanting to try again - then go for it! Don't live your life with regrets and wondering what would it be like if I had done this or that. You cannot go back in time - only move forward.
• India
19 Feb 07
thanq for the great answer there sad girl....... really loved the way u answered it.... mistake is there on both sides and they have to realize it.......and hence go ahead with relationship......
14 Feb 07
I think if you still love her you should give her another chance. If she has seen the error of her ways then you should be able to get on well now. You need to work through problems together, that makes the relationship stronger. If you part at the first sign of trouble you will never stay together with anyone.
• India
14 Feb 07
thank you will surely work on that....... i still love her and will give her a second chance now and yes i will work on the problem........and make our relationship stronger......
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• United States
14 Feb 07
Sometimes people forget why they part ways, as time seems to make everyone forget the really bad stuff and you are stamped with the memory that it just didnt work out. If you choose to entertain another go at it, you run the risk of standing back one day and saying to yourself 'yeah, now i remember exactly why we broke it off last time'. It's your choice in what to do. But if you choose to venture back in for round 2, beware that all the elements of round 1 might come back to haunt you. Good luck
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• India
14 Feb 07
thank you very much will take this advice into consideration and work on it........