how can you tell if a girl actully likes you ?

Out of my experience, here are some things that tells you if a girl likes you: She laughs when you say something (even when it's not funny!) She gives you a compliment She's turning red when you talk to her She gets nervous when you're around She's nervous while talking to you she's playing with something (pen, bracelet, necklace...) she's twirling her hair she fingers hers lips she didn't mention to you she had a boyfriend, but she did with others she's checking in the conversation if you have a girlfriend she reveals her feelings, and say: just kidding she tries to be with you she's trying to sell herself (sports, work, cuisine, sensitivity, wealth...) she offers you something she makes an effort with her outfit she tries to be more beautiful (hairdresser, new clothes, lipstick, perfume...) she fakes jealousy for fun she invites you indirectly or if she suggests any activity she likes to borrow your jumper, your jacket, your pen, your cap... she asks you for help when she could ask somebody else Try to realize if she does these things, there could be moew ways, but these are the ways that I know.

I will suggest..just say her your feelings if they are pure and from your heart they will definitely get reciprocated.. If however she does not like you then too, at least you will not be in a wrong illusion, and will continue to hunt for someone else...