What would you do?????????????????????????

India
February 17, 2007 12:29am CST
What would you do,if the person who LOVES U the MOST,HURTS U the MOST !
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9 responses
@priju20 (416)
• India
5 Mar 07
Well i already face this condition ....what i did is i fight alot ... but in the middle of i cool myself ..nd try to tell my feeling how ur hurting me ....... i really hope she must understand that .......
@limcyjain (3523)
• India
22 Feb 07
Firstly i dont believe that the the person who loves me the most would ever hurt me. He has always sacrificed to see me happy. If at any stage in life he actually hurts me i will take things as they come and if its my turn to sacrifice for him i would be there doing it with a smile.
@stacyv81 (5904)
• United States
22 Feb 07
Usually the one you love hurts you the most, because you love them the most. They have the most power to hurt you because you have given them your heart and soul. And vice versa. Relationships are full of passion, good and bad. It is all about the way you guys work through it. If you can come together and find a way to make things work, then you know it is right.
@kritipen (4083)
• United States
22 Feb 07
I will first of all find out the reason as to why that person is hurting me. If i feel it is very genuine then i will let it go and forgive that person everytime but if i find out that he/she is deliberatly hurting me then i will let the person know that i am being hurt.And if the person dosent rectify his fault then i think it is better for me to keep sme distance from him because i dont want to convert love into hate.
• Philippines
17 Feb 07
I will still love him because I believe that if you really love the person, no matter how many times he'll hurt you, you will still love him. It is his flaws to commit mistakes that will hurt you. That only makes him so human. But that doesn't mean that you will take all the pain of it. You must teach him enough not to do that hurting again. Changes should come after that. There should be an improvement in his part. Actually, the one that you really love is the only person that has the ability to give you so much pain. It is the reality. You just need to accept it. Love and pain goes well hand in hand. You didn't feel love if you will not be hurt. I assure you that. There is no such thing as a happily-ever-after type of relationship. You have all the reasons to forgive a person beacuse we are only human. Forgiveness should be given to worthy persons who asked for it. Besides, the pain that you feel makes happines sweeter to feel. It is the way you will be able to have comparison because you feel the difference of it in a very obvious way, pain and love.
@babyjane (1395)
• Philippines
17 Feb 07
Hurts in what way? Cheating? True love hurts. We have to sacrifice something to get what we want. The pain could helps us measure how we can sacrifice for the person. Love is fool. You can be stupid because of love. But if that person hurts you more and more, you have nothing to do than to let go and moving on. Hurt is a part of life but if he/she does not makes sense or does anything but to hurt you, well let go. God always destined us for somebody worth for what we can give.
@hoghoney (3749)
• United States
17 Feb 07
it would depend on why they choose to hurt me and if it was bad enough then it would be over. if its something simple then you try to work it out.
@anup12 (4180)
• India
17 Feb 07
It really hurts.But if it is for the frustration he has on others, that he treats me badly I will let her go.But if it is for any other reason I will try to find out and try to give the solution.
@chavezrmc (5777)
• Philippines
17 Feb 07
It depends on what is his action that hurts me. If hurting me because of a third party then i'd rather let him go or give him freedom. Remember that if there is love there is no pain and if there is pain the pain itself is love. Love can survive all test of time. Love is not selfish, whatever it is that can make him happy then i would gladly give it to him even if this can hurt.