when it is a she said /he said disagreement who do you believe ?

@lynninky (491)
United States
February 17, 2007 6:09am CST
i need help here ...i was in town late last night. i drove into the wal mart parking lot to see my sister in law hugging and kissing a man thatg was not her husband. i have been waiting for my husband to go to work so i could ask, do i tell my husband ? i do not get along with his family anyway so i really do not want to make matters worse. her husband so a really nice guy and she treats him like crap, he stays because of the baby. she was telling us a month ago that he said she could go out with her high school boyfriend and do whatever she wanted. well when my husband asked him about it he tell my husband that he did not know where she came up with that or why she would be saying something like that.i did walk up to her and ask if something was wrong. she said no this is my high school boyfriend. what should i do ? she said he told her to and he was saying month ago that she was full of crap ?to do to do ??????
2 responses
• Philippines
18 Feb 07
wow man, that was hard.... i think you just leave them alone. bec. if you mingle with that problem, people might think that your destroying their family or you're just making out the story. somewhere down the road her husband would find it out anyway, and that's the time that he would realize that he's being treated like crap already. and i think when that time comes, they will still save the relationship, anyway married people nowadays have affairs at one point of their married lives. it's just a matter of how they will give importance to the family that they've built together.
@lynninky (491)
• United States
18 Feb 07
ty for the comment. i have prove it was her but hope i never have toshow ur ro him. as for the cheating of married people i hope you are wrong there. i know it does happen a lot but only in a small precentage.
@ronita34 (3923)
• Canada
18 Feb 07
Wow .... Now this is something that is extremely wrong on her part and i for one seriously feel sorry for her husband as no one deserves to be treated in such a way as this! I think that you should first talk to your husband about it and maybe he can approach her husband much better and in a man to man sort of way! Her husband needs to know as you said he is a good man and he doesn't deserve this at all! I think that your sister in law sounds like she should give her head a shake and grow up! There are just so many cheaters out there and they always base everything on lust rather than wanting real love! Good Luck with this one hun and God Bless!!
@lynninky (491)
• United States
18 Feb 07
your are right , i agree 100%. he needs to know. is going to talk to him and the guy she is seeing.believe it or not he is her best friends husband and a long time family friend.i took pictures and showed them to my husband after dinner. she does act like a child 99.9% of the time. plus treats her husband like a nothing/useless/stupid know nothing but so does her mother. he does anything they ask and both of them talk bad about him...she does not work or cook. she buys clothes like there is no tomorrow. he works and keeps all things going ,then cooks when he gets home. while she is a pure b/witch to him. ty for the comment. so far it is the best.i will wait one more day then i will pick.