marrage is necessary in life????

India
February 17, 2007 9:58pm CST
me and my friend were talking last night,she was worrying about her life. actually she has finised her studies 6 month ago and she is the girl of 22,she is looking for a placement too. but her parents urge her to get married soon,so they are seriously seeking for a good guy......... but she is not interested now,everday she fight it out for this thing.......so she is worrying.... then i put a question myself, marriage is necessary in everbodies life? frenz clear my doubt,plz
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@jenalyn (675)
• United States
18 Feb 07
Marriage isn't necessary for everyone in order to have a happy and great fulfilling life. It would be worse to be married to make someone else happy including your parents, then finding that it isn't what you want. Life is too short to live it for other people, and you don't have any guarantees either. You should tell your friend that if her parents love her and really do want what is best for her, then they should know what is best for her is for her to make her own decisions, right one and wrong ones. It is her life and her decision. They just want her to be happy, and they are convinced being married will make her life happy. It will have to be an understanding between her and her parents that if she decides to get married, it will be when she is ready. They are only supposed to guide her and help her become an adult, and be there for her. They are supposed to let her be an adult once she has become one, after that they are only supposed to be there for her through the good and bad.
• India
18 Feb 07
u r right,jenalyn but people in my places always socity oriented,they mostly prefer arranged marriage than love marriage... they thinks that a girl should get married in the age bet ween 21-25,it is a problem here.they things that marrige is going to fulfill a girls life....... but i dont think so...