what attracts you to a person!!!!!!!!!

India
February 18, 2007 8:24am CST
different people different outlooks!!!! nature mean everything for some ppl while others look for the physical beauty.... yes nature definitely plays a major role....looks are the initial 10%..rest is your nature. leaving nature apart ...i would like to hear from you,physically what do look out for in a person. some get attracted to eyes ...some to face ...hair and so on. what do you have to say
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@cultoffury (1283)
• India
18 Feb 07
The body language attracts me, it should be graceful. Then long locks or wavy hair would be perfect. And eyes like a gold fish, and a dimpled face with a tinge of rose on the cheeks. Will that do? That is how romantic, I can be.
• India
18 Feb 07
hey...are you talking about me!!!!! hahahaha
@shilpaum (1752)
• India
18 Feb 07
Eyes,hairs,face,dressing style...all these contribute to first impression for me. As u have said looks are the initial 10%..rest is your nature,works for me too.
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• India
18 Feb 07
yes dressing sense matters a lot for most of the people
@sj_chaudhry (1537)
• Canada
19 Feb 07
yeah for me i really got attracted by anything which is so catchy.. either its eyes, hairs, lips or what so eevr...most of the time any unsusal thing like pimples and moles really gets my attraction on person's face heheheh and that person really got confuse for a while that what i am staring at on his/her face with so much concentration... it really seems to be very funny situation.
• Canada
19 Feb 07
you asked it and i told you... this is not a attraction you feel fascinating about... this is what grab my attention.... if somebody has unsusally big mole then i couldnot resist to stare at it... or somebody have so many pimples then and i just stare to think why people have so many pimples and how they will be treated.... everybody have different perceptions....... you cant say anybody NUTS....please...!!! mind your language.
• India
19 Feb 07
pimples and moles!!!!!! ru nuts!
@karan9 (20)
• Thailand
18 Feb 07
i would definitely say that a womans beauty lies in her eyes. this is the first thing that most of the men get attacted too. well physical beauty also matters a lot.. well too much infact. and thats what we men like a lot. hope this answers your question.
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• India
18 Feb 07
and what do you think girls look out for in boys
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@cherriemae (3370)
• Philippines
23 Feb 07
before i'm attracted to the physical beauty of a person.. but later i realized that it's not only the physical beauty that matters, its the inner self.. the attitude, the good values, having respect to women, being loving, sweet and caring.. his outlook in life, being a responsible to his family and other good about that person..
• India
23 Feb 07
yes nature matters the most
19 Feb 07
Well I would deffinatly go for personality the top priority. He hes to be honest sort of a person, clean, considerate, simular age to myself. Looks has to be the last thing on my list.. Lynn-Marie
• India
20 Feb 07
great! ur married?
20 Feb 07
We get married next year, looking forward to it too Lynn-Marie
@cuhkiz (568)
• Philippines
19 Feb 07
Attitude is what counted too much for me. I love a good personality with lots of humor. I dont go for looks but yes i love good looks but when being attracted to somebody and gaining some kinda affection I don't get stucked to looks only, personality is much important, why do i have to go for looks when the attitude sucks.
• India
19 Feb 07
hmmm....seems you had some bad experience
• United States
19 Feb 07
I first was attracted to my husband's eyes. Later it became his chest. I've always loved the chest on men. Call me crazy, but it's something when they are so soft. My husband's personality won me over to begin with anyway. He was my best friend before we started dating.
• India
19 Feb 07
cool!does he know that
@Shebang (244)
• Philippines
19 Feb 07
at first, its the physical thing that atracts you. On my part, i'm very much attracted to a guy with very deep eyes and someone who has great smile. Plus, its a turn on when someone has a smooth face. Because the first thing that we see in a person is his/her face. So those are the things that attracts me to a person.
• India
19 Feb 07
hmmm..eyes and smile ...top most answers till now.
• United States
19 Feb 07
If I was looking, I would look for a beautiful smile, pretty eyes and a nice chest and legs.
• India
19 Feb 07
a cute smile works for me even
• Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
20 Feb 07
well...I look for the eyes, the smile, the way she speaks, a healthy appearance, also i wont say i dont look at boobs or butt....but her smile and her eyes are crucial for me....i am talking about a girl i can end up liking a lot.
• India
21 Feb 07
so u having a gf?or still looking for your type you mentioned above
@mercy24a (83)
19 Feb 07
I am attracted first to a person's voice, regardless of the facial appearance or features. Don't ask me why cos I don't know why.
• India
19 Feb 07
i would still ask.....sorry but neways that was a different answer
@carol79 (201)
• Philippines
19 Feb 07
I definitely got attracted first to my husbands face, lips, eyes, the way he dressed, his scent, and his height. Some might have something to say with this story but I actually felt so much attraction the first time I laid eyes on him and I was hooked then after. I was in a night out with my girlfriends when he came with our common male friend. When I looked over myshoulder and I saw him I was hit like I saw sparks flying everywhere. No kidding! I am not a romantic and believer of such but after that night I do believe it is possible to fall in love at first sight. And we are togetehr for 6 years now!
• India
19 Feb 07
good to hear that!and what attracted him towards you
• Romania
19 Feb 07
the face and the body :d
• India
19 Feb 07
what is left?lolss
@sharon613 (2321)
• United States
18 Feb 07
There honesty and moral values.
• India
18 Feb 07
my friend ...look at my discussion carefully...im talking about physical aspects
@pagli84 (1850)
• Netherlands
18 Feb 07
honestly, im initially attracted to looks because its the first thing you see about a person. im not saying that i only fall for gorgeous guys, but looks do matter to me to an extent. i look at the entire package, of course, but im most attracted to body, smile, and eyes. however, im not going to start dating someone simply because of their looks. i do want someone that is fun, funny, interesting, intelligent, kind, romantic, sweet, and who treats me right. you know, there is a whole list of traits that i expect a guy to have, but i feel like my past boyfriends haven't embodied all of those. unfortunately, the ones ive seemed to have relationships with dont treat me right at all, so im not sure that what i look for is what i find and eventually choose.
• India
19 Feb 07
boyfriendsss! oopppsss strings of them!
@xphile777 (427)
• United States
18 Feb 07
There are several things, and it depends upon the situation. First thing I'm attracted to is a man's eyes, if I'm close enough to him to make eye contact. If I'm seeing him from afar, which is usually the case, his face and overall appearance are what I first notice. If he has a good-looking face, I'll then start to look elswhere on him. :) I'm attracted to men with longish hair. It has to be clean and has to look good. Not every guy with long hair (especially where I come from) looks good with long hair. But it can make a big difference between a guy looking just OK and looking really good. :) And if he has his shirt off, his chest is the first thing I notice. The chest is my favorite part of the male anatomy. : So, to sum up, I'm attracted to the face, the eyes, the hair, the chest ... and the rest of the male human body. LOL :
• India
18 Feb 07
is anything left!!!!!lolsss jss joking
@biyping (183)
• Indonesia
24 Feb 07
I prefer to look at the personality first, and then physical beauty, then the rest is the job..and etc
• Pakistan
18 Feb 07
hmm in girls hmm cant tell lol :D
• India
19 Feb 07
great ans....shall i mark it as the best response!lolss
@salil_44 (52)
• India
18 Feb 07
What I know about love I am putting it here. Love may start from physical attraction but more close you are more acceptance one has for other partner. Love is something like this acceptance and adjustment with the good and bad qualities of partner. Only then love is successful otherwise it merely lands up either in hatred or divorce.
• India
18 Feb 07
you didnt get my discussion i guess