My best friend is to trusting.
February 19, 2007 12:23pm CST
I love my best friend to death but, she has this boyfriend that is using her. She works two jobs while he works none. She cooks cleans and basically takes care of his every need. The problem is he tells her I'm looking for a job even though I know he isn't. She says he will find a job soon. It's kind of hard to find a job from your chair. I think this is a dead end relationship but don't want to risk our friendship. What should I do?
• United States
19 Feb 07
It is very hard to tell someone you love that her boyfriend is lazy and using her. You can try to tell her but until she realizes it herself nothing will change and you probably will loose her as a friend. I would say you will have to sit back and hope soon she will realize what a looser he is. Life is tough when you have to watch something like this go on.