why can't I be appreciated?

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I completely appreciate everyting my DH does. I mean he does work his butt off for our little family here. I don't deny that one bit. He works all of this overtime to keep us afloat, and such. But I wonder why he doesn't appreciate what I do? Why he seems to think I do nothing about here, when I cook, I clean (when I can mind you), I mind to the kids, I keep them clean, bathed, fed, off to school and daycare, pick them up from school and daycare, and keep him cuddled at night. Do I feel appreciated? No. Why? Because he seems to put all of his things first. The sheets he thinks are dirty, he washes them, thus leaving me with being kept up late and he knew I had to be up early tomorrow. Does he apologize, no instead he makes a snide comment about "well you could've done this sooner". Um no I couldn't because unlike him I had the kids to look after. I couldn't do that sooner because I had to make sure my daughters clothes were put out for the morning, my stuff packed for the daytrip tomorrow, my daughters bottles measured out for the morning. Did he help in any of this? NO. Did he thank me for this? NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Argh.