Now, Are boys and girls compelled to have a mate at an early age?

@alienstar (5142)
India
February 20, 2007 2:42am CST
All young boys and girls of this age are wanting to have a mate at a very young age and we notice these changes in everyday life isn't it? is it because of western effect or is there any other things which have come to effect here? what are your views here?
2 responses
• India
20 Feb 07
Its nothing but the curiosity that drives them crazy... at the young age we do things from heart and not from head... and the day when we start doing things from head... everything changes !!
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@alienstar (5142)
• India
20 Feb 07
Maybe you are getting some points and you also mean to say that at young age, they are not matured enough and get into serious relationships which is too bad at young age isn't it? i am also of yur view that one should take things serious unless they are mature enough and at young age, they do make mistakes.... Anyway's, thanks for responding
@kortni (26)
• Canada
20 Feb 07
I've been told i'm very young to be getting married. i'm turning 20 this year. I don't see that as young though. Age and Maturity are completely different situations. Who is to say finding love at 30 is more acceptable then finding love at 18. Know what i mean?
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@alienstar (5142)
• India
20 Feb 07
Yes, i can understand what you are saying and some things if i tell you, you maynot understand at this age for sure as you will be stubborn on your decision for sure.Recently, 4 years back one of my friends of age 20 got married to a girl of 18 years and both were good looking and now both are seperated as understanding is not there bewtween the two and more over they don't even seem to spare time for each others as before..now, whom to blame...whether it is their age problem or what and now that they even got one small kid of 2 years old.....so, things like this are really bad on anyone and i don't mean taht everyone will be like this but i would definitely say that boys should not get maried unless they are between 25-30 years and for girls it should be more than 23 years... know what i mean now....! Anyway's, thanks for responding