my boyfriend will be visiting me, how could i make it memorable?
February 20, 2007 5:27am CST
i have this guy for nearly four years now, minus one year when we broke up (hehe), and we're making it up to each other. the last time we saw each other was 10 months ago, you see we are also into a long distance relationship, and he will be visiting me in two weeks time. he will be staying for 5 days (ONLY!), unfortunately somewhere still far from me; and if i would be having my new work then, we would only be spending less than a day together.=c the original plan was, i would take him home with me to share time with my family or visit his sister together, and got to places we so long wanted to visit...but those would happen in my dreams alone. anyway, if that would be the only time i could have him for myself, i'm hoping to make it really memorable...can you share some ideas on how i could do just that? thank you...=
21 Feb 07
Hmmmm... wow Pangga will visit you pala?hehe:) If you really want to make it memorable, go to places that would remind both of you the first day you met. I think you can't be on the place where you first met but somewhat related to it would be a good one. Try to go to a place where you and him would really enjoy. Since you like adventures and maybe he like it too, try to go hiking. hehe:) Be the best couple for those days... Good luck! i miss you girl. Hope to meet your Pangga also... hehe:)
21 Feb 07
yes, he will.= = = unfortunately, we don't have much time to go hiking...how about going out on a double date with you and your bi? that would make us two 10's. hahaha! thanks...miss you, too. i might be working near your area, we could go out sometime.= ingat!
20 Feb 07
Hi there - glad to hear that your boyfriend is coming to your country to see you. Am I right in saying that you have started a new job and this prevents you from staying together for 5 days? My suggestion is, if you have 5 days, devote one night to having a party in your house, with friends and family. Devote 2 days for sight-seeing whatever the memorable things are in your town, city or area. Another day for just doing nothing in particular -perhaps you could use this day to bond and talk and perhaps talk anything through that you need to talk about. If you are together for so long, why don't you think about taking it to the next level? Maybe it is not the done thing in your country, but in Ireland people that are dating for this long would have set up home together. Do you think you will get married some day? Good luck!
21 Feb 07
hi, too! we are actually in the same country, but his place is way too far from me. anyway, i might just take your last suggestion, which is to spend the day to bond and to talk of anything important to us. we are actually laying out the plans of taking our relationship to th next level, we will get married someday, unfortunately, not in the next 3 or 4 years. we'll save first for our wedding. thank you so much.=