should a woman do as she is told?

@nicky35 (748)
February 20, 2007 5:58am CST
do you think you should live to please your man?dress how he wants rather than how you want,only leave the house when given permission by him,only eat the food he likes,go to bed when he says?what do you think?
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@CRiley27 (984)
• United States
20 Feb 07
Heck no. While I do things for my husband, it'sbecause I love him and I want to . In return he does the same for me. It's called respect for one another.
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20 Feb 07
Would I want to be with a control freak? heck no. There is no excuse for that kind of attitude and behaviour.
@Michele21 (3094)
• United States
20 Feb 07
No she shouldn't do only as the man says. My ex-husband was very controlling, if we were plannin on going somewhere and I was wearing something he didn't like he would leave with out me, and when he went out with his friends he took the keys to the truck so I couldn't leave. It wasn't a very good way to live so I left him.
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@nicky35 (748)
20 Feb 07
good for you,im glad you left him.
• United States
20 Feb 07
No, no, no, no! Why would a man want a woman that does not have her own mind? My husband respects that I am my own person and I think he would be bored with me if I did everything the same as him. Most men don't want to marry themselves. As far as the dressing how he wants, I do respect this and do not dress provacatively. I don't have male friends because it bothers him but I expect the same behavior from him. So I think this is fair.
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• Philippines
20 Feb 07
i do think and believe that woman should be there and support her man but to do always what she's told even if it's against her will? i think that it's too much. we all have and we all are entitled to our free will, and if a woman does what she is tols, at some sense, she should be doing it becasue she also wanted to do it, but simply following orders? i think it's not right. it's not healthy for the relationship as well as with the lady to be deprived with her free will. the relationship may be in great risks and at the same time, the lady might have depression when she had enough of every task that she is suppose to do.
@msqtech (15226)
• United States
22 Mar 07
I think marriage is a partnership and if one is slave to the other that isnt marriage