a friend in trouble how would you help

February 20, 2007 8:59am CST
i know some one who is dating a married man she met over the internet, she met him one nite and ended up having a bit of nookie now she is pregnant and they only had nookie once, as we all know it only takes once,what should she do how should she tell this married cheat she is having his kid what should she do abut it, i know for sure if it was my partner i throw him out and she can follow
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@Michele21 (3094)
• United States
20 Feb 07
She needs to be honest with the mand and let him know she is pregnant. It isn't a good situation for anyone!!
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• United States
20 Feb 07
My first question would be if she knew he was married when she first started up with him. She definitely should tell him she is having his child. He needs to take responsibility for the child. I would go to his house and tell him in front of his wife. I can not stand a man that would cheat on his wife. If you still want to play around don't get married for pete's sake. I would not stay with a man if he is cheating! If he does it to one he will do it to another. That kind of man has no concious.
20 Feb 07
yes she new he was married, but he said their marriage wasnt working out and he told her a pack of lie, and said his wife was cheating on him and they where on a verg of a break up. she is taking responsibility she is having the baby she now 3 months pregnant, but i only found out about this yesterday when she told me all. i was very shocked i must admit as i cant stand a cheat or a lier
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• United States
20 Feb 07
The oldest line in the book is how mistreated and how rotten a man's wife is when the man is a cheater and even if what he said is true she was playing with fire when she took on that kind of a relationship. I feel for her but she is paying the consequenses for a bad decision. She has to make sure she tells him. She needs to have financial help and since he pulled his pants down to get his needs satisfied than he should take the responsibility of helping with at least the money it takes to take care of a child. I would in no way take him on as a partner in any other way though. He is a jerk. How old is this girl?
20 Feb 07
she is 31 and he is 30 and yes i agree their also in what u just said, now he should pay the price and support the child when it is born